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Save the Date ??

CalJoe0124 Posted:

Save the Date ??

Hi ladies-
Does anyone know how long ahead of time you are supposed to send STD?
We are getting married 10/28/06 and I was thinking of sending them right after the new year...thanks to my lovely friend at work (love you Aimee) we came up with after the holidays so people don't just go through them along with the tons of holiday invites, cards, etc..

any ideas, advice?
Thanks!!
jens Posted:

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I don't know what you are suppose to do, but i'm going to send mine out within the next 2 months and I'm not getting married until Sept 06. I have almost 80% of my guest traveling, and i want them to have plenty of time to book hotels & save up $$.

kissy27 Posted:

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i don't believe there is a set time frame...I sent mine out right after the 1 year mark!

glinda_goodwitch Posted:

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As soon as I block hotel rooms (this week), I'm going to get started sending mine out. I just hit the 1-year mark two weeks ago.

kellwolfe Posted:

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I agree i dont believe there is a deadline we sent ours in our e-party invites

hsacks23r Posted:

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I am going to guess 6-4 months-we are sending ours in our christmass cards that wil be 5 months prior to the event
hsacks23r Posted:

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I am going to guess 6-4 months-we are sending ours in our christmass cards that wil be 5 months prior to the event
Shorty McBride Posted:

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according to the knot and the wedding channel, 1 yr before is the norm.

Jen2999 Posted:

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I am sending mine out in late august early september
july06bride Posted:

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doing mine around the one year mark- but since my one year is friday and i ordered them and they arent hear yet...(i ordereds them later than i wanted) i guess it will be about one month after my year to date

nala3378 Posted:

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I am going to send mine out Probably Oct 2005... Since I am getting married on a Holiday weekend and I have a lot of out of town guests. I am sending them with the hotel information, so my guests can book their rooms now and get this years rates...

CTarantino Posted:

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I am sending mine out in Aug for April 28. Gives OOT guests plenty of notice but not too early where they will forget.
Noiva06 Posted:

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If it's not on a holiday weekend you should send them 6-8 months ahead of time. I think one year ahead of time is to early and guests will forget... JMO
CalJoe0124 Posted:

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Thank you girls so much this was REALLY helpful!!

SIBride06 Posted:

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Im sending mine out in Jan.. about the same time Im registering. Im getting married in Aug 06

sarahbelle Posted:

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I sent mine out last week for our April 06 wedding.

EMES2006 Posted:

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Our wedding is next June, and we're sending ours out in the next week or so. We wanted to wait for the one year mark.

We're not sending them all out though. Family and close friends (our 'A' list I suppose) will get them now, and then we'll send to coworkers and random guests a few months later. Even though our guest list is set, we want to leave some wiggle room in case things change over the next several months. Wouldn't it be horrible if we sent a Save the Date to someone and then couldn't (or no longer wanted to) invite them to our wedding??

Jen2999 Posted:

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Posted by EMES2006

Our wedding is next June, and we're sending ours out in the next week or so. We wanted to wait for the one year mark.

We're not sending them all out though. Family and close friends (our 'A' list I suppose) will get them now, and then we'll send to coworkers and random guests a few months later. Even though our guest list is set, we want to leave some wiggle room in case things change over the next several months. Wouldn't it be horrible if we sent a Save the Date to someone and then couldn't (or no longer wanted to) invite them to our wedding??



We are doing this too, especially since I will be starting a new job in september.. new friends!!!
MissingTheBGene Posted:

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Posted by EMES2006

Our wedding is next June, and we're sending ours out in the next week or so. We wanted to wait for the one year mark.

We're not sending them all out though. Family and close friends (our 'A' list I suppose) will get them now, and then we'll send to coworkers and random guests a few months later. Even though our guest list is set, we want to leave some wiggle room in case things change over the next several months. Wouldn't it be horrible if we sent a Save the Date to someone and then couldn't (or no longer wanted to) invite them to our wedding??




We decided to not do save the dates...we have a bunch of gossipers in the family, word travels fast enough...
leese Posted:

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i'm sending it at 7 month mark or so.

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