Save the date ediqeutte

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Posted by ashnowa82

well for example... My Grand Mother and My Aunt Live together...would i send my grandmother one and my aunt or one with both their names on it?

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Each separate

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Posted by ourwedding9510

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Posted by ashnowa82

I'm sure I spelt that wrong...

any who... Questions about save the dates (magnet)...

1) If there are 2 people in one house, do they get one Save the date or 2

2) Those who have live in bf or gf should it be addressed to 'Mr. Tom Smith & Heather' or 'Mr. Tom Smith & Guest' or just 'Mr. Tom Smith'

3) FH thinks everyone should be a STD even his boss. Friend suggested not to... MEEP!!!!


Thanks Ladies

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1. I had this with my cousin (also a BM) living with her mom. The cousin was 36 years old so I sent them two different STDS
Ms. Jane Smith got one
Ms. Mary Smith got another

2. Live in BF/GF I addressed:
Mr. Michael Jones and Miss Mary Smith

3. Everyone should get a STD however we did not do that. I only sent the STD's to out of town guests and bridal party since they were the ones that REALLY needed to plan ahead of time. Everyone else knew the date. We just were changing out list until right before invites even went out so we didn't want to send STD's to everyone.

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This is a good plan!! I wish I had followed that!!

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Posted by SUbride10_08_11

Either

'The Smith Family' if whole family
'Mrs. & Mrs. Smith' if no kids invited

Or if it is someone and their significant other, not married but together along time we did
Mr. Peter Jones
Ms. Katelyn Smith
Address

Or in some cases we have like sisters who live together
Ms. Katelyn Smith
Ms. Jessica Smith
Address

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this is what I did.

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Posted by dpanzarino

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Posted by ashnowa82

well for example... My Grand Mother and My Aunt Live together...would i send my grandmother one and my aunt or one with both their names on it?

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Each separate

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Yes. If they would get 2 invitations, they get 2 STDS. They'd only get one if they are a unit, like a couple, or a family including children or something. 2 separate adults get separate invitations.

A tacky way to think about it that might be helpful anyway is, do you expect 2 separate gifts from these people, or would one giving you a gift count for both? If the answer is separate gifts, then it's separate invitations