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flynn14 Posted: Jan 13, 2013 10:47 AM+

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Posted: Jan 13, 2013 10:47 AM

Save the date help

I was wondering do adults over the age of 18 living w their parents get there own save the date or can I just mail one to the household? Thanks!

LisaReyes Posted: Jan 13, 2013 11:04 AM+

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Posted: Jan 13, 2013 11:04 AM

Save the date help

I did one STD per household, and one invitation for everyone 18+. I don't know if there a many 'rules' about STDs. They're pretty informal and up to you!

crisy211 Posted: Jan 13, 2013 01:14 PM+

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Posted: Jan 13, 2013 01:14 PM

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i agree, you can probably go either way. i did one per person/couple for people living in the same houselhold just bc we have a dysfunctional extended family and i wanted to be very clear about who is invited and who is not lol

canoli Posted: Jan 13, 2013 05:22 PM+

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Posted: Jan 13, 2013 05:22 PM

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I say one STD per house hold.

melnmatt2013 Posted: Jan 13, 2013 05:40 PM+

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Posted: Jan 13, 2013 05:40 PM

Re: Save the date help

Posted by LisaReyes

I did one STD per household, and one invitation for everyone 18+. I don't know if there a many 'rules' about STDs. They're pretty informal and up to you!

We did exactly this.

flynn14 Posted: Jan 13, 2013 06:30 PM+

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Posted: Jan 13, 2013 06:30 PM

Save the date help

Ok one more thing regarding save the dates: can I address it then to The ____ Family then?

LisaReyes Posted: Jan 13, 2013 06:46 PM+

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Posted: Jan 13, 2013 06:46 PM

Re: Save the date help

Posted by flynn14

Ok one more thing regarding save the dates: can I address it then to The ____ Family then?

If everyone in that family is invited - yes!

Antonella8 Posted: Jan 13, 2013 07:27 PM+

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Posted: Jan 13, 2013 07:27 PM

Re: Save the date help

Posted by flynn14

Ok one more thing regarding save the dates: can I address it then to The ____ Family then?

I did this! Worked out well.

venus6584 Posted: Jan 13, 2013 08:52 PM+

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Posted: Jan 13, 2013 08:52 PM

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We did magnets so I sent one magnet per household

lauren1802 Posted: Jan 14, 2013 10:12 AM+

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Posted: Jan 14, 2013 10:12 AM

Save the date help

we did per person/ per future invite so no one got confused and thought they were invited that wasnt going to be...
we didnt have too many overlaps, but did one to the parents and one to the cousin who will be over 21. the other 2 cousins (will be 17 & 12 or so) did not get STDs. we were most concerned about this family thinking everyone was invited!