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save the date question

Fall Bride 2008 Posted:

save the date question

Hi Girls!!!
We booked our church and reception site.
Being that we couldnt get a Saturday night in October we had to pick a sunday night :( .
I was wondering when we should send out our save the date magnets. Is now too early?
Being that its on a sunday night, I want my guests to have as much time as I can.
Also does anyone have a better idea other then a magnet? I want something that will not get tossed and they will remember the date.
Thanks for the help :)
Fall Bride 2008 Posted:

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Sorry I forgot to mention that it is October 2008

cherish83 Posted:

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I would say maybe at the year and half mark. I dont think a magnet is is bad idea, because it will be put on the fridge, so it wont be misplaced.

DavaDay Posted:

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I don't think you need to send them more than 12 months in advance. Even if your wedding is on a Sunday, one year is more than enough time for people to make plans. Besides that, if you send them out too early, people are likely to say, 'oh, that's so far away, I'll get to making those hotel reservations some other time...' and then forget about it altogether.

I know it's tough to wait because you have the 'wedding bug' but I think you should wait!
DavaDay Posted:

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Ooh, is that Gwen and Gavin in your avatar? I love them! I had the biggest crush on Gavin when I was in high school. She had a pink dress? I didn't remember that.

Ilovebriani Posted:

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Posted by DavaDay

I don't think you need to send them more than 12 months in advance. Even if your wedding is on a Sunday, one year is more than enough time for people to make plans. Besides that, if you send them out too early, people are likely to say, 'oh, that's so far away, I'll get to making those hotel reservations some other time...' and then forget about it altogether.

I know it's tough to wait because you have the 'wedding bug' but I think you should wait!



yeah i agree....before you know it it will be 12 months till the wedding anyway...just to be safe i would wait. that is plenty of time
Fall Bride 2008 Posted:

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Posted by DavaDay

Ooh, is that Gwen and Gavin in your avatar? I love them! I had the biggest crush on Gavin when I was in high school. She had a pink dress? I didn't remember that.




Thanks for the info!!

I totally have an obsession with Gwen Stefani Lol!!
Fall Bride 2008 Posted:

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I think I am going to stay with the magnet.. So far I think thats the best idea :)

Thanks for the info
dream426 Posted:

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Posted by DavaDay

I don't think you need to send them more than 12 months in advance. Even if your wedding is on a Sunday, one year is more than enough time for people to make plans. Besides that, if you send them out too early, people are likely to say, 'oh, that's so far away, I'll get to making those hotel reservations some other time...' and then forget about it altogether.

I know it's tough to wait because you have the 'wedding bug' but I think you should wait!



Oh good because I still need to order them and get everyones address. I thought I was running so late with them...lol
Autumn08 Posted:

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I'm also in Oct. '08 and I will send them in November or maybe December of this year.

failurebydsign Posted:

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if you have a lot of out of town guests then at least a year..thats what im doing..

so everyone knows its def happening and they can maybe save for the wedding instead of going on a vacation or something
Fall Bride 2008 Posted:

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i am lucky to say that I dont have that many out of town guests I was thinking of sending them out in sept/oct

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