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Save the Dates - Addressing

Fashion Bride Posted:

Save the Dates - Addressing

How is everyone addressing their STD? formally?
Also are you including a guest on the STD? Miss X and Guest?

I am trying to decide between Mrs. and Mrs.. Y
or Lauren and Tim X....

Soon2BeMrsPy Posted:

Save the Dates - Addressing

Our return addresses said The Future Mr. and Mrs. and then we labeled them as Mr and Mrs so and so or The X Family.

GoingToBoyle Posted:

Save the Dates - Addressing

I'm doing it formally and not putting and guest on it. If I know that they are in a serious relationship I'm including that person.

Soon2BeMrsPy Posted:

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Posted by GoingToBoyle

I'm doing it formally and not putting and guest on it. If I know that they are in a serious relationship I'm including that person.



winnie52376 Posted:

Save the Dates - Addressing

I am in the midst of addressing my STD's. I'm not doing it formal either. no 'and guest'. If someone is single, I will determine that on the real invitation. Otherwise - everyone is Mr. and Mrs X. Or the X family.

jenandivan Posted:

Save the Dates - Addressing

We handwrote the addresses, and put Mr & Mrs or The So and So family if we knew we were inviting the kids (My bro's family was the only one, actually).

We made these rather informal. We'll figure out the invites when it's time.
Lisa and Steven Posted:

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Posted by winnie52376

I am in the midst of addressing my STD's. I'm not doing it formal either. no 'and guest'. If someone is single, I will determine that on the real invitation. Otherwise - everyone is Mr. and Mrs X. Or the X family.



I did exactly this
Terriechick Posted:

Save the Dates - Addressing

Yea I did Mr and Mrs so and so and for the single I only sent to them. If they are in a relationship at the time of invites then I will include the guest on the invite.

meejack1110 Posted:

Save the Dates - Addressing

I did Mr. & Mrs. Smith which is slightly less formal than the Invitation Standard of Mr and Mrs Thomas Smith. I picked this style because its weird for me to Address my Aunts/Uncles/Grandmothers by their first name lol so I kept the 'Mr/Mrs' lol.

I did also put 'The Smith Family' for families I was inviting, and like other ladies said only included the Guest if it was a long standing serious relationship.
cets1290 Posted:

Save the Dates - Addressing

we did not do '& guest' on the save the date cards. We didn't want to write that a year in advance because relationships could end between now and then... if anyone has been dating their sig. other for awhile, is engaged, or married at the time wedding invites need to be sent out, then they will be invited with a guest

Chaz Posted:

Save the Dates - Addressing

I didn't put '& Guest,' I think that should be saved for the invitations.

The only time I put both names for an unmarried couple is if I know they're definitely serious, or they live together. Some of my friends who have been in shaky relationships, or if I'm not close at all with their SO, I'd only put my friend's name.

I also did, 'Mr. and Mrs. John Smith and Family' or 'Mr. and Mrs. John Smith.' I tried to keep them formal.
futuremap Posted:

Save the Dates - Addressing

I'm not including 'and guest' because I dont know if they will still have a 'guest' next year!!! lol

RoandJoe Posted:

Save the Dates - Addressing

Formal but again, no &guest. Our friends are way too unpredictable with relationship lately!

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