Say What?!
A few months ago when FH was here we went to brunch with his guy friends. They all kept talking about how they were going to interview girls to take to our wedding.
FH kept his mouth shut but afterwards I mentioned to him that we cannot afford for these guys to bring whatever SkA*K of the moment they are with b/c we cannot even afford to invite my cousins! He said he'd take care of it.
Invites went out and FH is back in Argentina.
I met up with his friends at a party on Friday night and they are all talking about their +1's! I never said '& Guest ' on their invites and I never asked how many will attend in the response cards! SO where the heck do they get the idea that they are invited to take whomever they want to MY wedding?! IT's not a party for them to go clubbing at, its OUR wedding!!
SO I told FH and he said that he already told them but I explained that they are mistaken and that he'd have to clear this up. He just yes'd me.
I'm the one planning this whole thing as he and his family aren't here and my family lives on LI (Bridesmaids both out of state) so the stress is on me.
Maybe I should have said something before but I think that this is FH's place to say something, right?
FH kept his mouth shut but afterwards I mentioned to him that we cannot afford for these guys to bring whatever SkA*K of the moment they are with b/c we cannot even afford to invite my cousins! He said he'd take care of it.
Invites went out and FH is back in Argentina.
I met up with his friends at a party on Friday night and they are all talking about their +1's! I never said '& Guest ' on their invites and I never asked how many will attend in the response cards! SO where the heck do they get the idea that they are invited to take whomever they want to MY wedding?! IT's not a party for them to go clubbing at, its OUR wedding!!
SO I told FH and he said that he already told them but I explained that they are mistaken and that he'd have to clear this up. He just yes'd me.
I'm the one planning this whole thing as he and his family aren't here and my family lives on LI (Bridesmaids both out of state) so the stress is on me.
Maybe I should have said something before but I think that this is FH's place to say something, right?
