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Ellinator Posted: Mar 17, 2014 01:25 PM+
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Posted: Mar 17, 2014 01:25 PM bride-minus.png

Scar!!!

I had a full thyroidectomy on 09/10/2012 ( removal of the whole thyroid glad) . I have a scar from the incision right where an Adams apple would be , it has faded tremendously, I remember when I was recovering I looked like Frankenstein ( FH said you couldn't even tell )
but its still there and even it will be faded, people would still be able to see it. I've been thinking about it for a while now, do I want my wedding pictures to show the scar since I will always have it? or do I get covered with makeup and have them Photoshop the scar? it doesn't bother me now and no one has even mention it but its a dilemma I m having!
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ang5774 Posted: Mar 17, 2014 09:02 PM+
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Posted: Mar 17, 2014 09:02 PM bride-minus.png

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I am faced with a similar situation, I will have a 4 inch one from a surg but I decided to let it be. My DR said it will not be noticeable by the time I get married. I nearly died when he told me this and then I recalled people will be there looking at us and not my scar...but I now it is still something we know will be there....mine will be on my left side so I was thinking maybe just hiding it with hair if I need....my gma had a chunk of her nose taken out due to cancer and I bought her this make up at the time - you cannot even see the scar it works wonders I do recommend it.

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mab30 Posted: Mar 17, 2014 09:19 PM+
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Rock it! It's part of you! I have some scars on my leg because I broke my femur a few years ago and had a rod implant, and then screws removed. I don't care about them at all! I wear dresses in the summer and don't care what people think. I actually like to show off my battle wounds :) Obviously mine aren't up near my face so you may be more conscious of yours, but they have a story and they make you, you!
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ang5774 Posted: Mar 17, 2014 09:30 PM+
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I agree..The whole surg thing in my situation was a shock and this just added to it but I can careless and like her DR said my DR did say you cannot see it.
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gberti Posted: Mar 17, 2014 11:05 PM+
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Posted: Mar 17, 2014 11:05 PM bride-minus.png

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I have the SAME situation!!
Full thyroidectomy in February of 2013.. its faded a LOT- probably very similar to yours, and I wasn't sure at first if I wanted it or not to be seen on my wedding day...

Everyone who will be invited to my wedding knows about my surgery- and it was never something I was ashamed of or wanted to hide. I thought of it more like a proud battle wound! In fact- its kind of like a smile on your neck (if yours is the same shape as mine!)

Its up to your what you end up doing- but I can almost guarantee you that it won't be noticed :)

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Ellinator Posted: Mar 18, 2014 07:37 AM+
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Posted: Mar 18, 2014 07:37 AM bride-minus.png

Re: Scar!!!


Posted by gberti

I have the SAME situation!!
Full thyroidectomy in February of 2013.. its faded a LOT- probably very similar to yours, and I wasn't sure at first if I wanted it or not to be seen on my wedding day...

Everyone who will be invited to my wedding knows about my surgery- and it was never something I was ashamed of or wanted to hide. I thought of it more like a proud battle wound! In fact- its kind of like a smile on your neck (if yours is the same shape as mine!)

Its up to your what you end up doing- but I can almost guarantee you that it won't be noticed :)




feel better now!!
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coffeeisgreen Posted: Mar 18, 2014 12:08 PM+
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Re: Scar!!!

Let it be. I have a slight Harry Potter scar on my forehead since I was 5. I don't want to gunk on the makeup just to cover it. If anything, just request to have it Photoshopped out
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gberti Posted: Mar 18, 2014 12:54 PM+
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Re: Scar!!!


Posted by Ellinator


Posted by gberti

I have the SAME situation!!
Full thyroidectomy in February of 2013.. its faded a LOT- probably very similar to yours, and I wasn't sure at first if I wanted it or not to be seen on my wedding day...

Everyone who will be invited to my wedding knows about my surgery- and it was never something I was ashamed of or wanted to hide. I thought of it more like a proud battle wound! In fact- its kind of like a smile on your neck (if yours is the same shape as mine!)

Its up to your what you end up doing- but I can almost guarantee you that it won't be noticed :)




feel better now!!



Glad to help! I've found that the only people who have noticed mine and asked about it are people who have the same scar/had the same surgery
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Ellinator Posted: Mar 18, 2014 01:03 PM+
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Posted: Mar 18, 2014 01:03 PM bride-minus.png

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Ive haven't seen anyone yet, maybe I haven't noticed. but its who I am
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