Should all of these emotions be expected? I was so excited despite all the drama etc and then all of a sudden I think it hit me today that I am really getting married in 11 days. I feel so scared. And, I have all these things running through my mind, about how everyone says the honeymoon is over after marriage, life changes, things change, will things change between us? How will life change? I have like 101 million questions and i am scared. Then i get emotional because I love my FH so much. He treats me so well, better then anyone, and I know we would do anything for each other and it makes me want to cry. NOW, I AM NOT AN EMOTIONAL PERSON!!!! I never cry over things like this. I think this whole wedding thing, has my emotions all tangled up! LOL, someone please tell me this is normal.....
Kimberley2015
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Ok let's try this...Breathe in...Breathe out....And repeat....I am getting married in a few months and I have been an emotional rollarcoaster so its to be expected. I have a wedding nightmare at least once a week and I cry over a commercial these days. I listen to specific songs that I know will be played at the wedding so I am all cried out the day of. Lol Just take it one breath at a time and enjoy every moment. You feeling all these emotions is to be expected and you are not alone. Just remember the walk down the aisle is going to be towards the man who is your best friend, partner in crime and love of your life. Breathe in....Breathe out....Repeat as needed. Big hug! Ssssqquuueeeeezzzzeeeeeeee =)
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DEEP BREATHS!!! Like my mom says, it's not about the wedding, it's about your marriage! :) You're marrying your best friend, you have NOTHING to worry about! I don't think anything will change between FH and me, except I get to get goo-goo eyes over looking at him wearing a wedding band <3
We're all here with you!! xoxo
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I am going through similar situation but not because something would change (we've been together for 6 years) but because I feel soooo lucky that we went through the bad and good. I am so scared that something happens to us - meaning - he travels for work every week. Don't be scared, treasure every moment. You will hit the tough patch, there will be fights and arguments but there will be also amazing love! be patient, don't think what, if, and when. Take one day at the time and it will be amazing. Most importantly - let go of little things, don't go to bed angry, and always say that you love each other. You are almsot there, you will have a wonderful wedding, and a great guy waiting for you! jsut breath!!!
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Thank you guys! I love him sooo much and I dunno....it's so scary and exciting! I will keep breathing and enjoy every moment towards the wedding and the day of.......thanks guys!
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I feel crazied and I totallllly feel ya. I was thinking to get a massage. everything is gonna work out fine. either way its to late to turn back now
ldequatro
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I can't wait until my bach party on september 6th.. we're having a spa day.. I'm getting like the ultimate longest massage they offer LOL
brookie6978
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I feel the exact same way LOL. My mood has been all over the place lately....it's so much stress!
karebear1
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So funny you guys say that! On Xmas my brothers girlfriend gave me and my mom a gift certificate for a 1 hr massage that we never used. We made appointments to go next Wednesday when we give the venue our final payment. I figured we would really need a massage after that hahaha.
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I feel the exact same way LOL. My mood has been all over the place lately....it's so much stress!
This!!!
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So funny you guys say that! On Xmas my brothers girlfriend gave me and my mom a gift certificate for a 1 hr massage that we never used. We made appointments to go next Wednesday when we give the venue our final payment. I figured we would really need a massage after that hahaha.
I hear you on that one.....I bought myself a Groupon for a facial! This is going to be a long 10 days LOL
