seating question??

antoinette Posted: Sep 10, 2002 10:33 AM

seating question??

we are not havin a dais but a table for two, but we do want the bridal party nearby ( first two tables) and all together. My question is - Where do the bridal party dates sit? I have 8 bm and 8 gm all of them have separate dates coming??

07052002 Posted: Sep 10, 2002 10:35 AM

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Ours will be sitting with their dates, for us that was the whole point of not having them at the dias.

So, we have a Groomsmen table w/ guests and a Bridesmaids table w/ guests

Karen62794 Posted: Sep 10, 2002 10:37 AM

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I am seating my bridal party with their dates. FH & I will sit together and then our bp and their dates will take up about 2 tables.

Licia Posted: Sep 10, 2002 10:39 AM

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My Fh an I have been back and forth on this issue. We are not having a dias or sweetheart tables. We just figured being that the majority of the BP is family they will sit with their families. Our friends will all sit together. Hopefully it will work out!

Sonicstef Posted: Sep 10, 2002 10:40 AM

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Sitting with their dates. I have been a date of a bridal party member and there is nothing worse than being at a wedding and not sitting with your date.

Diane Posted: Sep 10, 2002 10:42 AM

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I had my briday party sit with their dates.

Valenia Posted: Sep 10, 2002 10:44 AM

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Definately, definately let your bridal party sit with their dates! They will all have a much better time.

mickeya1a Posted: Sep 10, 2002 10:47 AM

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my FH and I are at a separate table alone and my bridal party is dispersed amongst family and friends...still close up....I hope its ok, but I thought everyone would want to sit with their dates and who they know....

SeptemberBride03 Posted: Sep 10, 2002 10:51 AM

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I haven't done my seating yet, but I will definitely keep the bridal party with their dates, I was in a wedding where my fiance knew noone and we were seated separately - it was awful! Definitely keep them together, then decide whether you want them with their friends or with the rest of the bp.

MichelleW Posted: Sep 10, 2002 10:56 AM

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Hubby and I had our own table and the rest of the bridal party sat with their dates. It is much more enjoyable that way

zac1228 Posted: Sep 10, 2002 11:16 AM

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We are mixing the bridal party in with the rest of the guests and their friends and/or family. Their dates will sit with them.

michele31 Posted: Sep 10, 2002 11:29 AM

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I am also mixing the bridal party up. Everyone will be seated with their husbands/dates. I think it is awful to sit at a wedding by yourself and have your date/spouse sitting someplace else.
I am also not sitting my bridal party all together since not everyone knows each other very well.

boosh78201 Posted: Sep 10, 2002 11:31 AM

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I too am sitting the bridal party with their dates.

Niecey Posted: Sep 10, 2002 11:43 AM

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2 bridal party tables. I will have the bridal party sit at one of the two tables with their dates. The tables will be on each side of the the table where FI and I are sitting.

Scoop Posted: Sep 11, 2002 04:24 PM

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sitting with dates.

Jen T. Posted: Sep 11, 2002 04:27 PM

SOmething different

We dispersed most of the BP with their dates and whichever table had their friends or family. We sat with our MoH and BM and their dates at a table for 6. It prevented one of us from sitting by ourselves if the other went to the bathroom or something.

jennbaby Posted: Sep 11, 2002 05:49 PM

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sitting with their dates. make 2 tables if you have to

jpsgirl Posted: Sep 11, 2002 10:05 PM

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I agree with everyone, I think tht having them sit separately went 'out' a while ago. Why do people want this, I don't know!

MISHY Posted: Sep 11, 2002 10:15 PM

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SITTING WITH DATES

Marcela1654 Posted: Sep 12, 2002 12:27 AM

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This is a debate between my FH and I. I say that the BP should sit with their dates. But FH says that they should sit a the Dais with us (serated from their dates) because 'that is the way it is done'. Our BP dates all know each other, but till I totally disagree with him. But we still have 1 year and half to decide. So we'll see.