second guessing...

It's so funny that you mention this. I was just saying the same thing last nite to one of my bridesmaids. I ordered my dress with a sweet heart top but now that i look @ the pics i took when i tried it on i think i would have been better off with the straight across top. Instead of freaking out and totally deciding i hate my dress i think i am going to try to find a different necklace. The one i have on in the pic is a reg. pearl necklace, i htink i am going to try to find one that had a slight drop in the front to help with the sweet heart top. i dont know what else to do

---

Posted by yelley77

---

Posted by futuremrsfab

it seems like a common feeling after buying the dress to second guess it... but just remember its not the dress that makes the girl- its the girl that makes the dress- you will be a beautiful bride! so try not to worry

---

Thanks... When i tried it on I *knew* it was the one, but when i look at the pics, i'm like... ummm... why did i pick that dress?

---

I'm going through the same thing!! it sux!!

---

Posted by yelley77

my dress... I'm not sure if I've posted about this, but ever since I ordered my dress, I keep second guessing it... I originally wanted NO beading and ended up with a dress with a TON of beading... I LOVE the dress from the back and I love the bottom... but everytime I look at the dress from the front I feel boxy and like there is too much beading on the front and it's so plain on the bottom.... When I look at the pictures, I'm like, that isn't what I remember seeing when I had it on, it didn't look so 'beady'....

I don't even know why I'm upset, it's not in the budget to get another dress... I guess I just needed a little vent.

thanks for listening.

---

I'm in the same boat I decided that i'm going to try to alter my dress as much as possible to make it more.....me! But I know that would be difficult in your situation...I have no advice sorry

But even though this probably doesn't matter, your dress is absolutely beautiful and you look great in it!

yelly..grirl your not alone! i think i've posted this at least 2 times about myself.. i still to this day think i made a mistake i wanted a FULL LACE DRESS and thats not at all what i got.. but like you said its not in the budget to get another.. but look the dress looks AMAZING on you! and its hard to 'imagine' the way the dress will look after its all put together hair/make up/ veil/ jewels like it will look on the day of!! try to think positive your a beautiful girl and any dress is going to look great! try not to worry!!

for crying out loud im even still doubting the BM dresses even though i like them its the fact that most of us have close to 2 years to dwell on if we made the right choice!

---

Posted by Soon2BMrsD

yelly..grirl your not alone! i think i've posted this at least 2 times about myself.. i still to this day think i made a mistake i wanted a FULL LACE DRESS and thats not at all what i got.. but like you said its not in the budget to get another.. but look the dress looks AMAZING on you! and its hard to 'imagine' the way the dress will look after its all put together hair/make up/ veil/ jewels like it will look on the day of!! try to think positive your a beautiful girl and any dress is going to look great! try not to worry!!

for crying out loud im even still doubting the BM dresses even though i like them its the fact that most of us have close to 2 years to dwell on if we made the right choice!

---

I think you hit the nail on the head.... we'll be engaged almost 2 years by the wedding and I've had SOOOO much time to dwell and think and rethink... I need to just STOP!!! LOL

PS, you're dress looks like it was MADE for YOU!!! it's truly amazing....

I just checked out your pics and I honestly think it's beautiful and you look great in it. it does have a lot of beading but it balances out b/c the bottom doesn't.

I know how your feeling though. it's typical.

I have been second guessing my dress too! I do like my dress, but I have lost and I am planning to lose more weight so I would want a completely different style, more fitted. My FH tells me to just get another dress, but I can't really justify spending more $ on another dress AND i am worried that they will screw up the alterations

I have been second guessing my dress too! I do like my dress, but I have lost and I am planning to lose more weight so I would want a completely different style, more fitted. My FH tells me to just get another dress, but I can't really justify spending more $ on another dress AND i am worried that they will screw up the alterations

---

Posted by yelley77

---

Posted by Soon2BMrsD

yelly..grirl your not alone! i think i've posted this at least 2 times about myself.. i still to this day think i made a mistake i wanted a FULL LACE DRESS and thats not at all what i got.. but like you said its not in the budget to get another.. but look the dress looks AMAZING on you! and its hard to 'imagine' the way the dress will look after its all put together hair/make up/ veil/ jewels like it will look on the day of!! try to think positive your a beautiful girl and any dress is going to look great! try not to worry!!

for crying out loud im even still doubting the BM dresses even though i like them its the fact that most of us have close to 2 years to dwell on if we made the right choice!

---

I think you hit the nail on the head.... we'll be engaged almost 2 years by the wedding and I've had SOOOO much time to dwell and think and rethink... I need to just STOP!!! LOL

PS, you're dress looks like it was MADE for YOU!!! it's truly amazing....

---

Thank you thats really sweet!! eveyone has said that but sometimes i just HATE IT but like i said i dwell on things if i have too much time! and thats exactly what i do so i have to try and ignore it! ha ha ha... thats why i had put doing anything for the wedding on hold for a quite a few months (hence me being behind now) cuz i was dwelling on EVERYTHIGN! You'll be fine! it will pass i promise! plus it looks awesome on you!

---

Posted by yelley77

my dress... I'm not sure if I've posted about this, but ever since I ordered my dress, I keep second guessing it... I originally wanted NO beading and ended up with a dress with a TON of beading... I LOVE the dress from the back and I love the bottom... but everytime I look at the dress from the front I feel boxy and like there is too much beading on the front and it's so plain on the bottom.... When I look at the pictures, I'm like, that isn't what I remember seeing when I had it on, it didn't look so 'beady'....

I don't even know why I'm upset, it's not in the budget to get another dress... I guess I just needed a little vent.

thanks for listening.

---

WE ALL GO THROUGH THIS - Dont doubt ur decisions - I'm sure you chose it for a reason