Second-guessing decisions....

Second-guessing decisions....

Anyone else doing this?? My FH is getting sick of me bringing up the same topic 100 times in one week
He tells me everytime 'we made this decision, let's stick with it' -- it's so easy for him to move on...blaaahhh

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Ahh yess!! FH tells me the same thing!

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Same here. I'm like 'We haven't paid for it yet, I'm allowed to change my mind!' They just don't get it.

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Your not alone! I second guess every decision I've made and sometimes lose countless nights of sleep thinking about it.

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I have the opposite problem....We come to a decision and I'm onto the next thing and then days later (when we've already called and asked half our ceremony participants) I don't know maybe we should have this person instead of that person.

Or I'm like ok let's talk about naming our signature drinks. And we talk for 5 minutes, and he's like i don't know lets think about it.

We have no more time to put these decisions off my friend!

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Ur not alone at all!!! I second guessed every decision...the room for the catering hall, my dress, invitations lol u just want everything to be perfect and don't worry it will be

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I awlways second guess myself!!! After we make a decision a few days later I think about it and change my mind.

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That's one issue I don't have. I make a decision and don't think about it again. Which is good since FH doesn't even listen the first time..

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Posted by net267

Your not alone! I second guess every decision I've made and sometimes lose countless nights of sleep thinking about it.

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I wake up almost every night out of a deep sleep ..I keep a notebook next to my bed

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This is me! I just got yelled at today as a matter of fact LOL Who knew I would be so indecsive when it came to wedding planning! LOL

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Totally have gone through the same thing. I ask him a million times what do you think and if you like it.

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Yes! I'm always second guessing little decisions and changing my mind.
Thank GOD I have not second guessed my dress or venue after purchasing, which were the most important to me, but I have second guessed and bought multiples of other things gosh its horrible!

Hopefully I'll only get to do this wedding thing one time. I want to do it right and the way I want it without regretting it later. Its tough, I always change my mind.

FH is ok with me changing my mind, except for the expensive accessories which I've bought a few already and now have to change. I'm in the final stretch so whatever I get from now on is final no backsies and everything else has to be ebayed!

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Absolutely, and my FH is already driving himself nuts so I keep it to myself. Which may be worse cause then it just gets turned around and around in my brain, driving me crazy! I've managed to control my second guessing so far so that none of it has turned into action. Hopefully I can keep it that way.

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Ugh. Story of my life. So hard to avoid though.

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The only thing I'm second guessing is my dress. I need to see it!!

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I do it for everything and it is driving me crazy!! lol

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I've second guessed EVERYTHING!lol. the latest was my dress...and yeah he's sick of me constantly doing it... I freaked out more with the dress..I'm going to see it again this wk after I talked to Sr. VP of the bridal company cus I was ready to tell them I prob should see another dress... hope it all goes well..