second guessing youve made

JPC1125 Posted: Mar 03, 2005 09:48 PM

second guessing youve made

Ive been doing alot of thinking and Ive realized that Im starting to second guess alot of the decisions ive made so far regarding my wedding
im pretty sure its just because i have so much time to kill that doubts enter my mind

what have you second guessed so far ?

Me: my hall, my gown, my first dance song, my bridal party, my wedding date

civic24ex Posted: Mar 03, 2005 09:55 PM

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I am too. I as well second guessed my first dance and actually decided to change it as of today and my dress, still wondering where that is, with only 44 days till my wedding but thats another story. And i think I am second guessing some of the things with the DJ. My biggest is a BM. I hate her, its so mean to say but shes become a psychopathic liar!

neesiepie Posted: Mar 03, 2005 10:53 PM

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I second guess EVERYTHING...EXCEPT FH! lolol.....

Seriously, though: GOWN, HALL, BM's, BM's dress color....CP's...

Jamie&MarkSept.'05 Posted: Mar 03, 2005 11:13 PM

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I second guess a lot too...my dress, color of the BM's dress, the date as far as whether the weather will still be nice....

I could really make myself crazy all day long with the second guessing!

Bunnymonkey Posted: Mar 03, 2005 11:17 PM

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me too! i think this is normal - there are just so many options. And being on a board like this, all these great ideas pop up all the time and I go 'Oh! I want to do it like THAT now!'

prindia Posted: Mar 03, 2005 11:40 PM

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Everything

Donna&Joe708 Posted: Mar 04, 2005 09:10 AM

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I second guess almost everything! For me, I think it has to do with the fact that we've had such a long engagement and booked almost all of our vendors two years ago...FH is always good though about reminding me of how much thought we've put into everything so far and that we've made the best choices to suit our needs. I'm sure everything will be great for you and these feelings are totally normal!

CubanBride Posted: Mar 04, 2005 09:11 AM

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I have second guessed the whole wedding. Part of me wishes we had just gone to Vegas and saved the money.

jennandrob Posted: Mar 04, 2005 09:24 AM

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Posted by CubanBride

I have second guessed the whole wedding. Part of me wishes we had just gone to Vegas and saved the money.

I wish we did it destination style as well

hbradio Posted: Mar 04, 2005 09:31 AM

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Yep - pretty much everything.

lauren16 Posted: Mar 04, 2005 09:35 AM

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haha, well i'm glad to see i'm on the only one! i guess it's natural to second guess, especially if things are rushed. it's really all just the icing on top as long as you're not second guessing your FH:)

SomethingBlu Posted: Mar 04, 2005 10:03 AM

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Oh boy...what haven't I second guessed?

The room at the hall (thanks to LP and MsKitty for lots of pics re-assuring me of my choice), my DJ, the date, the favors (still haven't decided)...I could go on and on...it'll be fine in the end, right?!

Why do we torture ourselves?

LuvMyMichael Posted: Mar 04, 2005 10:26 AM

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I have been second third and fourth guessing my favors.

wine, donation, apple pies, coffee scoops, tea... OH MY!

diamondgrlie Posted: Mar 04, 2005 10:31 AM

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I think its when we have too much time to think and re-think everything that we have doubts. I have 2nd guessed my choice of CPs, hair and shoes.

David'sbride Posted: Mar 04, 2005 01:38 PM

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I rarely do this in life. I usually never have a difficult time making a decision but I had second thoughts on my photographer and switched to another. I have no worries. I let it bother me for two months so I knew if it bothered me for that long it was worth investigating. Long story short, glad I did.

starbright_33313 Posted: Mar 04, 2005 03:47 PM

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Sweetpea130000 Posted: Mar 04, 2005 03:54 PM

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I keep second guessing my hall and if it will be enough room.

FI keeps telling me it will be

ladybug78 Posted: Mar 04, 2005 04:38 PM

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I have been second guessing so many things too, my wedding date twin!!! I feel like I am going crazy!!!

angelbear217 Posted: Mar 04, 2005 04:57 PM

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I have absolutely, without a shadow of a doubt second guessed everything!!!!I had whole other theme, 2 different color schemes until I decided on the one I did. That is why the invites are so hard, because I have second guessed everything like a million times. Including my dress. Don't worry we all do it.

ETA- Oh yeah we have had 3 first dance songs so far.