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second guessing youve made

Original post by JPC1125

Ive been doing alot of thinking and Ive realized that Im starting to second guess alot of the decisions ive made so far regarding my wedding
im pretty sure its just because i have so much time to kill that doubts enter my mind

what have you second guessed so far ?

Me: my hall, my gown, my first dance song, my bridal party, my wedding date
JPC1125 Posted:

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Oh THANK GOD!!!

I honestly thought I was the only one with these buggering thoughts

pffew...now how do we stop? LOL
Azrael27 Posted:

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I find myself second guessing everything - the hall, my dress, my hair, whether we should have eloped and saved the money & whether we should have waited so that we would have had more time to save money. Even though I may second guess something - everything's gonna be perfect in the end
catherine Posted:

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I feel like I second guess my decision all of the time, about my dress, photographer, DJ...

Vina1919 Posted:

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I recently have been second guessing the date with the weather and honeymoon time.
Other then that I LOVE my Hall, Dress, Limo company, DJ, Favors, etc.

My MOH and BP have been great, just wish we had more money and a different date.
AnniesSS Posted:

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Posted by diamondgrlie

I think its when we have too much time to think and re-think everything that we have doubts. I have 2nd guessed my choice of CPs, hair and shoes.



You are 100% correct!! Even if you love all of your decisions... you see something else fabulous and wonder if you should do that instead.

That's one reason why I'm glad we are getting married less then 6 months from the day we were engaged.... if we liked something, we went with it and moved on.

Although I have seen many things I have liked along the way after making final decisions, I try to not let it sway me, but it's difficult
OctBride05 Posted:

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omg, i've second guessed everything. i've second guessed my first dress so i bought another one, first dance song(i think i've had about 15 different ones), bp colors (finally decided on black), favors, ughhhh almost everything.

The only three things I haven't drove myself crazy with is my photo/video, my d.j. and my hall.

Laura1976 Posted:

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i'm second guessing my photographer in a big way, they have a good reputation but I was rushed and didn't get a chance to look into other photographers.

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