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Second part to my topic 'what would you do?'

Original post by Kim921

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A lot of you ladies believe in, 'the past should be left in the past.' I completely agree, but what if......

FH came clean on some guy on guy experimenting he did in college or something? (not that I an in this situation)

Thoughts???

I am scared to see your reaction to this question...lol

CatchI22 Thread views: 668

Re: Second part to my topic 'what would you do?'

I have to say that as long as it was experimenting and not a full blown out thing I wouldn't be that upset. I mean certain lifestyles make some people put in these situations more often than others.... especially if someone was in a 'party' way of life ie drugs, alcohol, after hours clubs, etc. You're not always in a right state of mind when involved in such a lifestyle.

Ronnie&Theresa Thread views: 668

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I wonder how many women have had bisexual experience and admit it!

smooch Thread views: 668

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But even if the person was with a guy and not living a lifestyle of crazy partying, does that mean he's doing something wrong?

I'm just trying to understand what everyone means. Because I do NOT think that a guy with a guy, or a girl with a girl is WRONG. There is no right or wrong based soley on the gender of the person you are intimate with, and even if there were a right or wrong, we are not the ones to judge.

Let me just say I'm not jumping on anyone's opinion, I just want to share how I feel. I see nothing wrong with homosexuality at all, and it would make me sad if anyone else does.

Jordan Thread views: 668

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Well said, emdonlon. I couldn't agree with you more.

Kim921 Thread views: 668

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t-wanna find out? I'll ask....

smooch Thread views: 668

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Thanks cp0329.

IrishTracy Thread views: 668

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The past is the past. I'd make sure he was SAFE!! I wouldn't want him to condem me for what I might have done in the past. So, why should I condem him?

michele31 Thread views: 668

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It would depend. Did he tell me out of trust and love or did he tell me because I found out on my own? Does he still have feelings for men or was it honestly just an experiment?
What I did or my husband have done prior to our meeting helps to make us the people we are today but our past is just that...our past. I am someone who believes in the here and now and the future. His acts prior to meeting me are not something for me to forgive or accept, they are just part of his life.

yabbobay Thread views: 668

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I think a husband shoudl tell the wife this piece of information...homosexual behavior has medical risks...that I would want to be aware of...(more so than heterosexual...)...I would also want to know if he had sex with a prostitute...for similar reasons...

I would also wonder if he did have feelings for men...something that I wouldn't be able to fulfill...