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Second thoughts about my gown..

butterfl2878 Posted:

Second thoughts about my gown..

Decided on one last August and now I am second-guessing. I was kind of excited to check it off my list b/c I was leaving town for the year. I loved it on and did feel 'the rush' (that feeling everyone describes as when you know it's the one). But now I am looking at pics and my thoughts are wondering. I'd rather not post it publicly, but I can forum mail it to anyone who will give an honest opinion - thanks guys.

7706bride Posted:

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I am sure it is beautiful. I would love to see it.

junie20002 Posted:

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can I see it ? fm me

9.17.04bride Posted:

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I thought I felt the same way about my dress, I loved it at first, then, after time went on, I only had pictures to look at etc. I started really wondering if I loved it as much as I did that day, till the point I made myself sick. I know you said you are out of town, but what I did was went back to the place where I ordered it, and tried on the sample again, can I tell you, when the lady first brought out the dress, I told her that wasn't the dress I ordered, I didn't remember how beautiful it really was. And the pictures did nothing for it. I hope this helped you a little. Good luck. I would love to see the dress, and I would give you an honest opionion.

MrsJ Posted:

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Oh i felt the SAME WAY about mine!! I was 2nd guessing all over the place. I ordered my gown and even then still looked around and still kept coming back to my dress. I think every bride waits for the moment when you find 'the one' and tear up and all that. I know I DID because thats all I kept hearing about from other brides. But when it came down to it I never felt that way...my wedding is in 13 days and I know I love my dress - and I STILL havent teared up about it...I think its just that some peopl - like us - dont get that way over a dress, for some reason! I wish I did but...it didnt happen. Have fait in your 1st decision and if it makes you feel better look around a bit...but go with your gut - and just be happy you found a dress you love. Looking around may only confuse and stress you out.

butterfl2878 Posted:

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Thanks all.

Elaina Posted:

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im sure you it is great

GettingMarried0402 Posted:

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I've had mine since September b/c it came it early and I've had so many thoughts about it. I wish I would not have rushed into it and would tried on a few more b/c I don't feel the same about it as I did before. There's nothing I can do about it now, but my sisters keep convincing me that it is beautiful.

chachou22 Posted:

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I would love to see it please FM
P.s this is normal we all feel that way until we put it on again

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