Anyone having second thoughts on vendors, colors, dress? I just went on Saturday to visit the florist and left their feeling great. But now I am having second thoughts of the flowers I chose. It happened with the DJ, the photographer, videographer, my colors. Is this normal or am I losing my freaking mind?
halfbaked
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I second guess everything I do- WR or otherwise!! Don't freak out over it! Just try to remember exactly why you chose what you did in the first place! If you still feel that strongly, speak to your florist and see if you can change it!
RGEC47
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I guess I am not used to having to sign contracts for everything, it makes me feel taht I have lost control. But it is all neccessary and you're right, I chose who and what I chose for a reason. Thanks, needed some positive reinforcement.
halfbaked
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Haha don't worry about it. I do it to myself all the time. It's so hard not to, especially with the amazing ideas everyone comes up with on these boards! Trust your gut though!
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i think you just have the mindset where you second guessed one thing, so now you are reevaluating everything else... i guess its a normal thought process... but its probably unwarranted!
RGEC47
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Haha don't worry about it. I do it to myself all the time. It's so hard not to, especially with the amazing ideas everyone comes up with on these boards! Trust your gut though!
You're so right, everyone has suchamazing ideas that it makes you wonder!
RGEC47
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Posted by AngnShaun
i think you just have the mindset where you second guessed one thing, so now you are reevaluating everything else... i guess its a normal thought process... but its probably unwarranted!
I guess because we all want everything to be perfect you tend to think that you could have something better than what you chose. If I keep this up I am going to be married in a straight jacket...
KTnChris
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YES! I bought 2 dresses bc after a month I hated the first one and now I'm thinking about changing my RH.
regy_k
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its totally normal to doubt everything. we want everything to be great and perfect on the day of, its very hard not to doubt the choices. Ive been doubting my choice of a dress really badly the last couple of days its horrible! the moment I feel finally good about one thing, another thing springs up and drives me crazy
MarjorieFrank
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I second guess everything.
I saw a sample from my florist and loved it, but within 30 minutes I didn't want it anymore. I keep changing my mind about everything!!
StellaStar13
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I completely know what you are saying and am dealing w/the same thing. I have 2nd guessed everything but the man and my RH (although it took 4 months of SOLID looking for me to pick it!!!)
Take a step back and do everything you can not to obsess...I know, I know not easy but it will help! We all do it so dont worry!!
RGEC47
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Thanks for everyone input! I have talked to some of my friends about this, but they are more or less like 'You're exagerating it cannot be that difficult to make a decision, it's not that serious..blah..blah..blah!' So it's nice to hear from people that are going through the same thing and can actually sympathize because they are going through the same thing. Thanks ladies!!!
mzmahagony
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I second guess everything as well. We ordered te bm dresses on sat and I have already changed the color twice...lol...
