Looking for answers to customer support questions? Click Here
Wedding Forums > Brides Helping Brides ™ > Sending save the dates?
Sending save the dates?
MissToMrs
Posted: Dec 26, 2013 07:30 PM+

Posted: Dec 26, 2013 07:30 PM
Sending save the dates?
Hi Ladies,how far in advance did you/ do you plan to send save the dates? I have them and have just started to put them in envelopes and collecting addresses so I am going to need a good 3 more weeks to get it all done. Do you think sending them at the end of February for the first week in December wedding is a good time frame? I figured that was roughly 9.5 months by the time everyone gets them! What do you all think?
Amanda2022
Posted: Dec 26, 2013 07:49 PM+

Posted: Dec 26, 2013 07:49 PM
Sending save the dates? - Long Island Weddings
My friend is getting married at the end of August and she is sending hers out end of January so that's 8 months. So I think you sending them in February or even a little after you should be more then fine
Lori0413
Posted: Dec 26, 2013 08:00 PM+

Posted: Dec 26, 2013 08:00 PM
Sending save the dates? - Long Island Weddings
We sent ours about 10 months out and that was because ours is on a holiday weekend so we wanted to give plenty of notice. So you're more than fine sending them in February!
Soon2BeMrsMango
Posted: Dec 26, 2013 08:07 PM+

Posted: Dec 26, 2013 08:07 PM
Sending save the dates? - Long Island Weddings
We sent ours out at 10 months
MissToMrs
Posted: Dec 26, 2013 08:13 PM+

Posted: Dec 26, 2013 08:13 PM
Sending save the dates? - Long Island Weddings
thanks ladies! I was thinking thats a good estimate too!!! We are getting married the weekend after thanksgiving and its also around Christmas so I know it may be stressful for some families!!!Another quick question- when you sent them out did you guys hand address them or have them printed?
Gambigoo
Posted: Dec 26, 2013 09:14 PM+

Posted: Dec 26, 2013 09:14 PM
Sending save the dates? - Long Island Weddings
I'm getting married in August and we sent ours out at the end of September. We have a lot of out of town guests and most of our friends are teachers so we wanted enough heads up in case anyone started booking vacations and stuff.
ladygoodman
Posted: Dec 26, 2013 09:19 PM+

Posted: Dec 26, 2013 09:19 PM
Sending save the dates?
I'm sending mine out in February for my October wedding. And I'm printing labels for addresses.
cets1290
Posted: Dec 26, 2013 09:24 PM+

Posted: Dec 26, 2013 09:24 PM
Sending save the dates? - Long Island Weddings
i think thats good.. we sent ours out at like 11 1/2 months because we are a holiday weekend. otherwise, we would've done about 9 months
coffeeisgreen
Posted: Dec 26, 2013 09:46 PM+

Posted: Dec 26, 2013 09:46 PM
Re: Sending save the dates?
End of February is perfect. I sent mine the last weekend of November. 11 months out.I had the addresses printed on labels.
Percz2418
Posted: Dec 26, 2013 11:21 PM+

Posted: Dec 26, 2013 11:21 PM
Sending save the dates? - Long Island Weddings
I'm doing mine next month so about 8 1/2 months out. I have a ton of OOT guests so I want to give people ample time to make travel arrangements. Otherwise, I probably would have waited another month or two. We are going to have return addresses printed on our envelopes and then have guest addresses printed on labels!
xBudgetBridex
Posted: Dec 27, 2013 06:40 AM+

Posted: Dec 27, 2013 06:40 AM
Sending save the dates? - Long Island Weddings
I think I'm gonna try to get mine out at the one year mark.....bc we have a friend that lives in Florida that is getting married 2 weeks before us so we want to make sure all our friends can prepare for both weddings!
Terriechick
Posted: Dec 27, 2013 08:26 AM+

Posted: Dec 27, 2013 08:26 AM
Sending save the dates? - Long Island Weddings
I sent mine out 6 and a half months prior but I do not have alot of Out Of town Guests. I hand addressed those puppties.. Use labels. It took forever to write them out..LOL
melhunny46
Posted: Dec 27, 2013 09:03 AM+

Posted: Dec 27, 2013 09:03 AM
Sending save the dates? - Long Island Weddings
We are sending ours out next month. So that will be 9 months out!
Belle21
Posted: Dec 27, 2013 12:34 PM+

Posted: Dec 27, 2013 12:34 PM
Sending save the dates? - Long Island Weddings
We sent ours at 10 months out. We would have waited longer, but we have a ton of OOT guests. I printed the addresses directly on the envelopes (like...with a printer, not with my hand!). It wasn't too difficult but labels would have been much less of a hassle!
MsErikaLynn
Posted: Dec 30, 2013 01:34 PM+

Posted: Dec 30, 2013 01:34 PM
Re: Sending save the dates?
Posted by Amanda2022
My friend is getting married at the end of August and she is sending hers out end of January so that's 8 months. So I think you sending them in February or even a little after you should be more then fine
same here! I think February is fine :)
mlynn
Posted: Dec 30, 2013 03:10 PM+
Sending save the dates? - Long Island Weddings
I'm a total slacker.. sending them out this weekend so a little more than 5 months before. Getting lists and addresses from our parents took forever.
KTF11
Posted: Dec 31, 2013 08:05 AM+

Posted: Dec 31, 2013 08:05 AM
Sending save the dates? - Long Island Weddings
For our August wedding I sent out the save the dates about 11 months before. The may be too early for some people, but for us we have so many OOT guests that we felt it was needed.
katielynn
Posted: Dec 31, 2013 08:13 AM+

Posted: Dec 31, 2013 08:13 AM
Re: Sending save the dates?
Posted by MissToMrs
thanks ladies! I was thinking thats a good estimate too!!! We are getting married the weekend after thanksgiving and its also around Christmas so I know it may be stressful for some families!!!
Another quick question- when you sent them out did you guys hand address them or have them printed?
I actually sent mine out just over a year out since we're A: Getting married 12 days before Christmas. and B: I have a TON of OOT (and out of country) guests so I wanted them to have AMPLE time since I'm a nervous wreck with travel plans.
Also... I hand wrote my addresses because I can't be bothered to fight with the labels and printer. I have very neat handwriting so I wasn't concerned. I had a stamp from an etsy shop for our return address :)
guitarstikibars
Posted: Dec 31, 2013 08:48 AM+

Posted: Dec 31, 2013 08:48 AM
Re: Sending save the dates?
we sent ours out the beginning of the month, and we're getting married at the end of August. So ... about 8.5 months in advance.
Welcome New Vendors
- The Barn At Old Bethpage Discover the charm a...
- Jack & Rose Jack & Rose Floral D...
- Tellers: An American Chophouse Celebrate Your Love ...
- Cup Of Tea Creative Unique Wedding Gifts...
- Speeches for Milestones The Big Day Has Arri...
- Long Island Bridal Expo Connecting Brides & ...
- 1 More Rep 1 More Rep: Elite Fi...
- Bellport Inn The Bellport Inn –...
- Fiddlers Dream Music Experience the Music...
- Havana Central Celebrate Your Weddi...
- Primerica Nelida Flynn Primerica Nelida Fly...
- Acetra Affairs Here at Acetra Affai...




















