seriously!?!

So today I emailed my FMIL a list of her side of the RSVP slackers as I like to call them...
well i was kinda like who out of these people you think are def coming...
so shes going thru the list and goes...

'Nilsa, have to make sure I have the correct address.'

Umm when did you think it would be a good time to figure this out???? That might have been helpful before we mailed them out a month and a half ago!

and now im sad...we got a few from her list today (Not from Nilsa tho lol ) and they are all no's!!!

Im getting nervous we are not even going to meet our min!! we invited 260 people and we are at 138!! Still a bunch of RSVP slackers but still!
our min is 175!!
They will prob all be no's too!

responses are due 25th, i know there is still time...
and i think the final head count is a week before.
we got a lot of no's already!
i think we are still waiting to hear from like 50 people!

i hope those 50 RSVP pretty soon for you

that makes me nervous my min is 175 and we invited 249 today i actually didnt receive 1 RSVP

i hateee ppl

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Posted by LadyDuda81509

responses are due 25th, i know there is still time...
and i think the final head count is a week before.
we got a lot of no's already!
i think we are still waiting to hear from like 50 people!

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Okay you have some more time. I would start calling them after the rsvp date. It amazes me that people don't respond, I mean you know if you are going or not. I just found out that someone didn't receive their invite and another responded and I never got it, I wonder if that happened in your case too.

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Posted by jmbc2377

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Posted by LadyDuda81509

responses are due 25th, i know there is still time...
and i think the final head count is a week before.
we got a lot of no's already!
i think we are still waiting to hear from like 50 people!

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Okay you have some more time. I would start calling them after the rsvp date. It amazes me that people don't respond, I mean you know if you are going or not. I just found out that someone didn't receive their invite and another responded and I never got it, I wonder if that happened in your case too.

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it amazes me the most how people (like lets say FH's Brother who is a GM) who have no choise and are def going to be there, dont mail the response in the second the get it! i get some people have to make sure they can make it, and are unsure, but come on now!!

I always wanted a big wedding with everyone there! i hurts sometimes like people who i would be there for in a heartbeat are saying no to my wedding! come on people its going to be soo much fun!!!

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Posted by LadyDuda81509

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Posted by jmbc2377

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Posted by LadyDuda81509

responses are due 25th, i know there is still time...
and i think the final head count is a week before.
we got a lot of no's already!
i think we are still waiting to hear from like 50 people!

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Okay you have some more time. I would start calling them after the rsvp date. It amazes me that people don't respond, I mean you know if you are going or not. I just found out that someone didn't receive their invite and another responded and I never got it, I wonder if that happened in your case too.

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it amazes me the most how people (like lets say FH's Brother who is a GM) who have no choise and are def going to be there, dont mail the response in the second the get it! i get some people have to make sure they can make it, and are unsure, but come on now!!

I always wanted a big wedding with everyone there! i hurts sometimes like people who i would be there for in a heartbeat are saying no to my wedding! come on people its going to be soo much fun!!!

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I hear ya. We have people that have reserved rooms but haven't sent their responses in. I guess people really do just wait until the last minute for whatever reason.

I'm sorry that you have close people that are responding no. Just remember it's about you and FH that day. If they can't be there for whatever reason, it's unfortunate for them :)

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Posted by ajlgmm815

i hear you on that our best man still hasnt sent his back!! really its like a reuqirement for you to be there!! really weddings do make u realize how much people suck!!

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i just spoke to one of my BM....and she asked 'i guess i have to send back the rsvp huh?' i'm like, 'is there an envelope with a stamp in there?....then YES!!' lol and i just sent out my invitations on tuesday!!

wonder what i'm going to be like in a month??

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Posted by DanielleAndMichael

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Posted by ajlgmm815

i hear you on that our best man still hasnt sent his back!! really its like a reuqirement for you to be there!! really weddings do make u realize how much people suck!!

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i just spoke to one of my BM....and she asked 'i guess i have to send back the rsvp huh?' i'm like, 'is there an envelope with a stamp in there?....then YES!!' lol and i just sent out my invitations on tuesday!!

wonder what i'm going to be like in a month??

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If your family and friends are anything like the slackers in mine you will be going crazy!!! haha hope its not as bad for you! this is seriously the worst part in all my planning!

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Posted by DanielleAndMichael

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Posted by ajlgmm815

i hear you on that our best man still hasnt sent his back!! really its like a reuqirement for you to be there!! really weddings do make u realize how much people suck!!

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i just spoke to one of my BM....and she asked 'i guess i have to send back the rsvp huh?' i'm like, 'is there an envelope with a stamp in there?....then YES!!' lol and i just sent out my invitations on tuesday!!

wonder what i'm going to be like in a month??

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Ahh my friends did this too, it's so annoying. We wound up getting an RSVP the day of our wedding. I thought that was pretty amazing!!! Thank god it was a no lol.

oh boy!!!!!!!!! i hope those rsvps start rolling in for u