seriously???????

i jsut signed onto facebook to this:

Dear Amanda,
I've read your letter and have not had the time to give this a full and thorough reply. It's been hectic with everything going on and work on top of it all.
I think that we should get together just me and you and talk about everything that has gone on and put this behind us. We love you and want you and our son to be happy for the rest of your lives together.
Michael said that you are going away until Wednesday so why dont we get together when you get back.




what do i even say girls?
seriusly?
am i really supposed to play nice and pretend like everythings okay?

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Posted by amandamichael

i jsut signed onto facebook to this:

Dear Amanda,
I've read your letter and have not had the time to give this a full and thorough reply. It's been hectic with everything going on and work on top of it all.
I think that we should get together just me and you and talk about everything that has gone on and put this behind us. We love you and want you and our son to be happy for the rest of your lives together.
Michael said that you are going away until Wednesday so why dont we get together when you get back.




what do i even say girls?
seriusly?
am i really supposed to play nice and pretend like everythings okay?

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OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH look shes all sweet and innocent now.. play right along with it / kill her with kindness. Dont ignore it because you will be just acting the way she acted towards you and she will go to her son and make it look like you are the problem when in all actually she is the problem -your not

I would make arrangements to meet with her. If you don't she and possibly FH will say that is the reason things are not working.

Do not give her a reason to try and make it seem like it's your fault.

Just have a drink or two before you meet up.

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Posted by PNF84

What this woman really needs is a swift kick in the pants. But since that wouldn't be appropriate, you meet with her and hold your head up high. Do not be submissive, but be polite. (Think caroline manzo from Real Housewives of NJ- I'll never start a fight, but I won't back down from one either, lol)

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yea i just hope i can stay calm enough and not flippp out ( think theresa RHNJ haha)

i know i have to do this for FH
i just know that this isnt the end of it

Ive only been semi paying attention to what shes done previously... she sounds a lot like Shauns mom... bi-polar... except his mom is an alcoholic too...

Right now she sounds like shes trying to kill you with kindness... i wouldnt totally write her off... nor would i completely trust her either... i would set up a date to meet with her... at least just to hear what she has to say for herself and to make sure i can say what i want

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Posted by amandamichael

i jsut signed onto facebook to this:

Dear Amanda,
I've read your letter and have not had the time to give this a full and thorough reply. It's been hectic with everything going on and work on top of it all.
I think that we should get together just me and you and talk about everything that has gone on and put this behind us. We love you and want you and our son to be happy for the rest of your lives together.
Michael said that you are going away until Wednesday so why dont we get together when you get back.




what do i even say girls?
seriusly?
am i really supposed to play nice and pretend like everythings okay?

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I think you should go, it sounds like she is making an effort!!!!!

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Posted by rendel

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Posted by amandamichael

i jsut signed onto facebook to this:

Dear Amanda,
I've read your letter and have not had the time to give this a full and thorough reply. It's been hectic with everything going on and work on top of it all.
I think that we should get together just me and you and talk about everything that has gone on and put this behind us. We love you and want you and our son to be happy for the rest of your lives together.
Michael said that you are going away until Wednesday so why dont we get together when you get back.




what do i even say girls?
seriusly?
am i really supposed to play nice and pretend like everythings okay?

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I think you should go, it sounds like she is making an effort!!!!!

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ya know what it sounds like to me?
mikes at her house bc he stopped by and it sounds like he flipped out on her

Ren, shes had this letter for a month
come on

ill go
for him
but uhhhhhhh
im so over the bs
maybe this will temporarily go away
i just want quietness in my life
but no nooo i dont trust this for a second

its just not sincere to me
i guess i can just see right through it

I agree. He went there and told her off and gave her an ultimatum.

Whats w the we love you? No you don't you psycho biatch!

Oh i'd totally go and if she says ANYTHING negative i'd just say, 'i'm sorry you feel that way.' and move on.

Realize this. You have the upper hand here. Your FH is making it known that her behavior is inappropriate unacceptable.

Definitely go. She'll be seething after and you'll go home and cuddle w her little boy.

yea i just wish i could have been a fly on the wall for that fight haha

he never defends me in front of me haha
always behind closed doors

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Posted by allornil

I agree. He went there and told her off and gave her an ultimatum.

Whats w the we love you? No you don't you psycho biatch!

Oh i'd totally go and if she says ANYTHING negative i'd just say, 'i'm sorry you feel that way.' and move on.

Realize this. You have the upper hand here. Your FH is making it known that her behavior is inappropriate unacceptable.

Definitely go. She'll be seething after and you'll go home and cuddle w her little boy.

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LOL ITA

yea ill play nice
im going to vegas friday and im not back until wednesday afternoon

hopefully ill b calm when i come home

I went through this with my FMIL and you just have to agree to meet. When you go smile, grit your teeth and hope for the best. I ended up apologizing for her misbehavior. We both agreed to play nice for FH's sake. We agreed that he was the most important thing and that although we cannot change the past we can make the future better. Now the whole time i wanted to reach across the table and pull her hari out adn say 'Yo, B*tch!!! You owe me an apology!!!' But I just held it in and when I got home I screamed into a pillow!! She lives next door so I had to muffle the sound!!! Anyhow, kill her with kindness, hold your breath and pretend your talking to the nicest person in the world!

GOOD LUCK!!!

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Posted by Im getting Married

I would make arrangements to meet with her. If you don't she and possibly FH will say that is the reason things are not working.

Do not give her a reason to try and make it seem like it's your fault.

Just have a drink or two before you meet up.

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ITA!! don't give her a reason to say anything!!!!

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Posted by Im getting Married

I would make arrangements to meet with her. If you don't she and possibly FH will say that is the reason things are not working.

Do not give her a reason to try and make it seem like it's your fault.

Just have a drink or two before you meet up.

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ITA!