seriously???????

Kill her with kindness , but feed her with a LOOOOONNGGGGG spoon!

Good luck!

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Posted by cMm2011

I would KILL her with kindness!!!! Go and be as sweet as you can

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ITA!!!! That's 100% more aggravating that if you were to be nasty or curt with her.

I would go as calm as possible and see what she has to say.. Don't give her any reason to try to put blame on you or go back to your FH and say I tired and she wasnt nice or anything ya know?

Im sorry Im sure this is so frustrating for you but just see what happens when u guys talk.

Go....
=) Be even NICER than her....

Play along chica....

Perhpas u should do that... I had to do that with my FMIL before.... I had to SMILE as she used to talk sh1t...

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Posted by LaBellaVita622

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Posted by Im getting Married

I would make arrangements to meet with her. If you don't she and possibly FH will say that is the reason things are not working.

Do not give her a reason to try and make it seem like it's your fault.

Just have a drink or two before you meet up.

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ITA!! don't give her a reason to say anything!!!!

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totally agree!

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Posted by Neeks

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH look shes all sweet and innocent now.. play right along with it / kill her with kindness. Dont ignore it because you will be just acting the way she acted towards you and she will go to her son and make it look like you are the problem when in all actually she is the problem -your not

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I agree. Be the bigger person and respond and choose your words carefully. If you don't respond, it may backfire.

yea i responded that we should sit down when i get back from vegas next week
hopefully ill come home very calmhaha

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Posted by amandamichael

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Posted by PNF84

What this woman really needs is a swift kick in the pants. But since that wouldn't be appropriate, you meet with her and hold your head up high. Do not be submissive, but be polite. (Think caroline manzo from Real Housewives of NJ- I'll never start a fight, but I won't back down from one either, lol)

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yea i just hope i can stay calm enough and not flippp out ( think theresa RHNJ haha)

i know i have to do this for FH
i just know that this isnt the end of it

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You can do it! Definitely think Caroline Manzo.

When you're about to erupt, take deep breathes, and think of FH!

wow-wasn't expecting that!

Def. meet w/her-I'm sure your FH would really appreciate it! LIke others have said-as hard as it might be...kill her w/kindness! Let her say what she has to; and when it's your turn; let her know what has been bothering you!

Good luck!!