SEXTION OF THE DAY - 4/21/09

Morning ladies...I hate that I am up so early, but its been a trying night. Before I go back to try and get a couple more hours sleep I figured I'd give all you early risers a reward for being so much better at it than I am


So since I'm tired and grumpy that has inspired this question:

How do you guys handle things when someone ISNT in the mood? Who isn't in the mood more, you or them? Does an argument ensue if you or they aren't in the mood or do you just roll with the punches? Does anyone really say 'Not tonight dear, I have a headache'?


Since FH and I are long distance we try to do it as often as possible when we ARE together...I have been more up for it than he has though. There's been a couple times where he had a stomach ache or he was too tired and of course I was disappointed but I didn't put up a fuss since I wouldn't want him to do that if it was me not in the mood. And neither of us has said 'not tonight dear, I have a headache' but who knows its only been a year of us being together

i actually get headaches, migraines actually, a lot... as in, once a week .... so it woldnt be unusual if i had to say that

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Posted by Nichole2010 i actually get headaches, migraines actually, a lot... as in, once a week .... so it woldnt be unusual if i had to say that

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same here!! when i used to coach i would be so exhausted...and even sometimes now with all i have on my plate. Fh will never stop trying tho Lol

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Posted by Nichole2010

i actually get headaches, migraines actually, a lot... as in, once a week .... so it woldnt be unusual if i had to say that

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dittttoooo on that lol

FH works a physically hard job therefore he will be 'too tired' sometimes. If im really in the mood I will try to get him worked up so he's not tired anymore, but it usually doesn't work for me. FH has never had to deal with me not being in the mood, it doesn't happen

grrrrrrrrr
im getting angry just thinking about it.

i get shot down all the time!!!!!!!
he says its because of his weight.
i just go to another room and watch some tv to fall asleep

FH works 2 jobs and i take care of our almost 15 month old son all day so it's not rare that the both us are too tired, but we never miss an opportunity when we are not totally exhausted

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Posted by Rosalind_75

grrrrrrrrr
im getting angry just thinking about it.

i get shot down all the time!!!!!!!
he says its because of his weight.
i just go to another room and watch some tv to fall asleep

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OMG I am in the same boat as you, so I feel your pain!!!!!!! I am always in the mood and even if I'm not I will be :) lol