Afternoon everyone!! Sorry I'm a little late, been trying to fight off a sinus headache...
So, in the vein of our toe question the other day, what if your fiance came to you and told you that their ultimate fantasy was for the two of you to sleep with another woman? Would you do it?
I definitely would...I'd try most anything once! As long as when everything was finished she got her butt out and FH and I could cuddle and go to sleep.
MrsSoto
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Nope nope NO! I know I know us wives are supposed to keep them happy but I just dont want him having sex with another bia*tch and thats it!! I give you props tho girlfriend, lol
jayepyt
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hell no y am i getting married for if he wants another woman to join us jmo but fh knows not to ask that
lilpiggy742
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noooooooooooooooooooo waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyy-i think it can cause friction..what if someone goes to far, or someone freaks out during it and realizes it wasnt what they thought-u never know. On the other hand....if i was the third girl..maybe i would-go in have fun, leave and let the other 2 b i t c h it out with each other lmao
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No way! One of FH's ex-girlfriends asked if he wanted to have her friend join and he got angry and was shocked she would even ask something like that because she should have known he only wanted to do that with her, not some other girl. So I guess I'm lucky in that aspect. lol.
regy_k
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no way!!!!!!!!!! i'll kill him just for suggesting
(did that sound extremely jealous??? hehe)
MrsSoto
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Posted by regy_k
no way!!!!!!!!!! i'll kill him just for suggesting
(did that sound extremely jealous??? hehe)
im with you 100% , who cares what it sounds like, lol.
marrymybestfriend
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guys opinion coming!!!
a threesome is not something i would EVER wanna do with someone that i care about. because there is TOOOOO many openings for bad results.
in my opinion.. .if a threesome is something you want to do... maybe it's on your bucket list...lol... i suggest you do that with people that you're not trying commit to for the rest of your life.
i dont know if that made sense... hopefully it did
depoc1011
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Nope! and FH def wouldnt ask....he thinks it could complicate things wayyyyy toooooo much! and ITA!
Alexandra17
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I am all for trying things once...but...I will never have a threesome with my husband because if we need to spice things up that bad, we need marriage counseling.
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I just feel the need to say that FH and I love each other greatly and have actually discussed this sort of thing...it wouldn't be done on the fly, we have talked about boundaries beforehand and I know that at the end of the day what we do with someone else is just sex and that our love is reserved for one each other alone.
I totally understand where you guys are coming from...but I felt like I was getting railroaded into a 'bad relationship' place and didn't want to be.
I wouldn't do it. But then again I guess I can't speak about it since I've never been in the situation. I think he knows better than to ask though
MayBride2010
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FH jokingly brings it up every once and a while - I think half to see my reaction and half to tick me off LOL Honestly though, he knows it won't happen. I really think he would kinda be scared sh*tless if I actually said yes!
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Posted by MikesBride2B
I just feel the need to say that FH and I love each other greatly and have actually discussed this sort of thing...it wouldn't be done on the fly, we have talked about boundaries beforehand and I know that at the end of the day what we do with someone else is just sex and that our love is reserved for one each other alone.
I totally understand where you guys are coming from...but I felt like I was getting railroaded into a 'bad relationship' place and didn't want to be.
i dont think the other responses cast judgement on yours...they are just giving their opinions.
i understand where ur coming from but at the same time when you say 'as long as she leaves right away' it doesnt mean that you or him will stop thinking about it right away...threesomes can really open up a can-of-worms...its hard to just 'do it' and then move on...
deanna225
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i wouldn't do it with my fh. we have spoke about it and he is not into that. so im good there.
MC127
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My initial response would be no cuz I would feel uncomfortable about him wanting/(lusting) someone else in our bedroom. If he got me drunk enough, maybe.
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I wouldn't do that but that is because i am possessive and more traditional and (not that i like to admit it) a little jealous I wouldn't be able to do it but if someone else in another relationship were to feel more comfortable with trying new things then that's cool for them, i am def not about to judge anyone. I give you props for giving your honest opinion about this...wow you've got guts!
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Posted by drivwal
I wouldn't do that but that is because i am possessive and more traditional and (not that i like to admit it) a little jealous I wouldn't be able to do it but if someone else in another relationship were to feel more comfortable with trying new things then that's cool for them, i am def not about to judge anyone. I give you props for giving your honest opinion about this...wow you've got guts!
ITA..I wasn't calling you names or anything..I just wouldn't feel comfortable on that level..don't worry...I know that some people can, some can't I just fall in the 'can't'
