Okay, so I noticed that on your personal pages many of you dont list your vendors..you just say booked!. Is there a reason for this? I want to know, should I take my vendors down? Is it because of some shady stuff going on? Let me know.
LoveisBliss
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i think it's because of the drama a while back... people just felt better keeping the info confidential i'm guessing...
beachbum05
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You'll get different opinions on this...
Many people don't do it because they are afraid that someone could call up, posing as them, and cancel their limos, flowers, dj, etc.
I don't think that any reputable vendor would cancel based on a phone call...I would hope (and I should really find out from my own vendors if this is true or not) that they would require either an in-person meeting, or a written letter stating that you wish to cancel with them.
A month or so ago, a bride on here made two different profiles (I don't know if you were around for this or not, so I'll just explain it anyway! ). She basically pretended to be two different people...and one of those two personalities was trying to cancel the other personality's vendors. At the time everyone assumed that it really was a crazy bride trying to steal someone else's vendors. We found out later that it was actually the same person (even more crazy!).
But I think that freaked out a lot of brides on here, even though the girl was pretending to sabotage her OWN wedding....not anyone elses.
In any case, I don't have anything up (I think?) except for my RH...but if you did a search of my name (beachbum05), you'd find every single post I've ever written...which would basically tell you every single vendor I've booked.
So really, you could find out all of that information on any bride that has ever talked in a thread about booking with a vendor, even if they don't have that information readily posted.
I think its just a fear of someone trying to cancel any of your vendors, but I think the likelyhood of that is really really slim.
tiff940
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Yea I know about the crazy girl. What made me laugh is when you said one of her personalities tried to sabotage her other personalities wedding!!!! LOLOLOL!!!!!
Well, I never really worried about this but now Im thinking I may remove them.
MrsD71208
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Wow, that's nuts! I think that I'm going to just FM personal stuff like that for now on. Thank God all I did was book one thing, and that is DEFINTELY NOT something that could be cancelled over the phone!
beachbum05
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Posted by MrsDtoBe
Wow, that's nuts! I think that I'm going to just FM personal stuff like that for now on. Thank God all I did was book one thing, and that is DEFINTELY NOT something that could be cancelled over the phone!
I hear ya. It's just tough to remember that anyone on the web could do a google search of 'name of RH' and 'price' and might be able to access your posts!
