She said No...

I just told my friend the Great News... That I want her to be my MOH...

She said No to me... My friend from a long time said not to me because she is involve into another wedding she says... I feel mad and sad...

OMG, I am so sorry!

Ohh no - i guess i understand but you technically dont have a wedding date set right, so how could she say no to something that isnt set?

either way - im sorry

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Posted by MrsVtoBe

OMG, I am so sorry!

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I wanna cry...

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Posted by WeezyGirl2354

Ohh no - i guess i understand but you technically dont have a wedding date set right, so how could she say no to something that isnt set?

either way - im sorry

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I want to 'present' my Bridal party at my engagement party and tehre is a potential i get married on 2011.... (house search is going great now...)

She has been insinuating me that she wants to be my Maid of Honor...
I give her the Tittle... and she says 'Sorry mama I am involve in another wedding and have to save money to go to TX'

i'm so sorry... but the same thing happened to me too..

i had asked a gf of mine to be my bm.. and she declined. it's a costly thing to ask of someone, so i can only respect her decision.

don't be upset, you'll find someone else to be your moh and you never know, it may even turn out better than you thought!

OH god I'm so sorry!

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Posted by jwleewedding

i'm so sorry... but the same thing happened to me too..

i had asked a gf of mine to be my bm.. and she declined. it's a costly thing to ask of someone, so i can only respect her decision.

don't be upset, you'll find someone else to be your moh and you never know, it may even turn out better than you thought!

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But she was insinuating me all the time 'I will be so honor to be ur maid of honor...' and crap like da...
Now she has the title and says NOP SORRY I CANT

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Posted by anszusterman

I'm so sorry! I have my older sister being my MOH- so I never thought people actually say no! I'm sure you will find someone else

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Not so sure honey...
I dont have many friends....

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Posted by VCanizalez

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Posted by jwleewedding

i'm so sorry... but the same thing happened to me too..

i had asked a gf of mine to be my bm.. and she declined. it's a costly thing to ask of someone, so i can only respect her decision.

don't be upset, you'll find someone else to be your moh and you never know, it may even turn out better than you thought!

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But she was insinuating me all the time 'I will be so honor to be ur maid of honor...' and crap like da...
Now she has the title and says NOP SORRY I CANT

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i'm so sorry sweetie... everyone loves the title, but not everyone can handle the responsibilities, so maybe it's a blessing is disguise. if she can say all that stuff about how she wanted to be your moh and not stand true to those words, then you can only imagine what else could have happened during the wedding planning process..

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Posted by jwleewedding

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Posted by VCanizalez

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Posted by jwleewedding

i'm so sorry... but the same thing happened to me too..

i had asked a gf of mine to be my bm.. and she declined. it's a costly thing to ask of someone, so i can only respect her decision.

don't be upset, you'll find someone else to be your moh and you never know, it may even turn out better than you thought!

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But she was insinuating me all the time 'I will be so honor to be ur maid of honor...' and crap like da...
Now she has the title and says NOP SORRY I CANT

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i'm so sorry sweetie... everyone loves the title, but not everyone can handle the responsibilities, so maybe it's a blessing is disguise. if she can say all that stuff about how she wanted to be your moh and not stand true to those words, then you can only imagine what else could have happened during the wedding planning process..

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True Chica.... true...

Awww I'm sorry this happened to you!

i thought you had posted earlier about potentially having two MOH and one BM?
if one MOH said no, did your other friend say yes to be your MOH?

i'm so sorry!

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Posted by FutureMrsLots

that s u c k s I'm sorry to hear that. She's obviously not htat good of a friend. It always stinks to find out the hard way.

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I kno sukcs....

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Posted by allornil

aww chicka, I'm sorry. I would be disappointed too. I'm only having a MOH and BM. Neither can say no since my MOH has already been warned forever ago and my BM is my FBIL! lol I'll kick his little *** if he says no.

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Lol at least u have ur bridal party...