Shocked that I got a little upset....

Original post by RGEC47

Dec 16, 2009 04:50 PM

A girl at my job, that I get along with really well, just started a relationship. So you all know that at the beggining of a relationship everything is so cute, new, perfect, etc. As she was telling me about her date lst night, a thought poped into my head. 'I will never have those first love feelings. I will never have the butterflies when I know I am about to see him...the nerves about our first kiss...our first time together, etc.' Now don't get me wrong I love FH, but it just made me a little sad.

Not sure what this really is...had to share.

es2189 Posted: Dec 16, 2009 09:40 PM

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es2189 Posted: Dec 16, 2009 09:41 PM

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RGEC47 Posted: Dec 16, 2009 09:44 PM

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Posted by Lsorrent

I was struggling with this too.....I think it's part of the reason I was fighting so much with FH.

But think.......now you also won't have those 'OMG do I look ok?' 'I wonder if he likes me' 'Should I say I love you' feelings anymore either...........you know, the resistant, hesitant ones that make you feel sick..........

You're right, there are other new great feelings to come. I definitely do not miss those initial feelings of insecurity.

PS: I am happy to hear you and FH are working things out. Couples hit a rough patches, but it is just a patch, and it will pass.

Rosalind_75 Posted: Dec 16, 2009 09:50 PM

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awwww

ive thought about this so many times
yeah it scuks but live without fh would scuk even more

Its2Snappy Posted: Dec 17, 2009 10:40 AM

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Funny enough I never thought about this. FH and I will be together 10 years in January. He's always been my best friend, and falling for him was great. But, learning to grow in love has been even better. All of those beginning feelings are temporary. I think what comes afterward is a far nicer feeling.