Shoes

karebear1 Posted: Feb 21, 2014 10:34 PM

Shoes

Davids Bridal came out with these cute wedge shoes that are about 1'. They have sparkles all over them and i was thinking about getting them. When i told my FMIL she had a problem with this. Apparently, I am supposed to wear heals??? I am almost 5'8. When i tried on my dress they told me i am the perfect height and they might not even have to hem the length. Is anyone even going to see my shoes!!!??? I don't understand what the big deal is? I rather be comfortable on my wedding day. If I wear heels I am going to be so scared walking in them! ugh

YES he asked me Posted: Feb 21, 2014 10:46 PM

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Wear what you are most comfortable in.

cets1290 Posted: Feb 21, 2014 10:52 PM

Shoes - Long Island Weddings

wear whatever YOU want to wear. If you want to be comfortable then wear flats who cares what everyone else thinks.. my sister wore converse and my cousin wore toms lol but they were comfy!

Kris724 Posted: Feb 22, 2014 07:43 AM

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Wear them! Better to be able to dance all night & have fun than making everyone happy.

Vilardi82 Posted: Feb 22, 2014 09:27 AM

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You don't HAVE to wear anything. There are no rules about shoes you do whatever makes you comfortable.

haw4 Posted: Feb 22, 2014 09:34 AM

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Wear what you want, don't listen to anyone else. My MIL also made a comment to me because I decided on kitten heels (I'm short). I just let her talk, and told her this way I can wear them all night and be comfortable. She let it go.

karebear1 Posted: Feb 22, 2014 09:53 AM

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Thank you guys. I am so over all my friends and families opinions!!!! It can get to be so overwhelming

Amanda2022 Posted: Feb 22, 2014 10:15 AM

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I'm 5'9' and FH is 5'11'..so I will be wearing flats, nothing wrong with that

KimnAndy Posted: Feb 26, 2014 10:07 PM

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Wear what YOU want to wear. I am 5' 8 1/2' I will not need high heels (and would probably not only be uncomfortable in them but break my neck trying to walk in them lol) or to hem the dress as most wedding dresses are made for women 5' 9'. My fiance is 5'8' and I don't want to tower over him in heels either. I am wearing a shoe from David's Bridal with a 1 1/2' heel.

Do what is best for You and what You are most comfortable in.

Megglez108 Posted: Feb 26, 2014 10:15 PM

Shoes

I'm 5'10 and wearing a sparkly pair of ballet flats. I wear flats more often then heels and I want to be super comfortable that day.

Soon2bMrsEhrhart Posted: Feb 27, 2014 10:02 AM

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Wear what you like, and that makes you confortable.

KTF11 Posted: Feb 27, 2014 10:10 AM

Shoes - Long Island Weddings

I agree, wear what you are comfortable in.

xBudgetBridex Posted: Feb 27, 2014 10:17 AM

Shoes - Long Island Weddings

Ugh this bothers me so much!! It's amazing how many opinions people have!!! Show me where it says I HAVE to wear heels!!!! No where!! I don't like that weddings make everyone tell u what u have to do and what u can't do!! My banquet manager even told me u have to wear heels till after your first dance ....Um what! Lol do whatever u want!! I think I know what shoes u r talking about....im thinking about them too!! Go for it!!!

karebear1 Posted: Feb 27, 2014 08:57 PM

Re: Shoes

Posted by xBudgetBridex

Ugh this bothers me so much!! It's amazing how many opinions people have!!! Show me where it says I HAVE to wear heels!!!! No where!! I don't like that weddings make everyone tell u what u have to do and what u can't do!! My banquet manager even told me u have to wear heels till after your first dance ....Um what! Lol do whatever u want!! I think I know what shoes u r talking about....im thinking about them too!! Go for it!!!

AMEN! LOL I KNOW!!!!! <--- About everyone and their opinions. I lost it on my mom over the weekend and i was like 'i am so tired of everyone and their stupid opinions!!!!' i REALLY am. I feel like the next person who gives me their opinion i am going to kill them. I didn't even ask her for her opinion! I told her i was thinking about them and and as soon as i said 1 inch wedge thats when the opinions start flying out of her mouth...ugh