should I?

Browneyesncute Posted: Jun 12, 2008 03:27 PM

should I?

number the back of the resonse card?? if i dont i'll get the invites out sooner!

KK Holiday Posted: Jun 12, 2008 03:27 PM

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i think you should. if someone sends a blank one youll be kicking yourself for not doing it

ETA: my cousin also told me that for her response cards she was getting back people in the family who didnt include 1st names like

Mr. & Mrs. Smith

but she didnt know WHICH mr & mrs smith it was!!!

Espo22 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 03:28 PM

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Posted by Browneyesncute

number the back of the resonse card?? if i dont i'll get the invites out sooner!

trust me and do it. I had a few problems and wish i did this

Browneyesncute Posted: Jun 12, 2008 03:28 PM

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i know! lol FH hasn't finished his guest list, and me being impatient i was going to stuff the invites in the meantime

jillyb97 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 03:29 PM

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it took us maybe an hr extra...if that...probably closer to half an hr...i think it's worth it...

MJDoc12 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 03:29 PM

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i did it--and i had a few that didn't fill in their names...including my retarded sister

Kerin2804 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 03:29 PM

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Honeslty, I would too ...when I first heard about this I thought it was overkill but now after reading so many posts about receiving responses with no names I am definitely numbering ours !! Whoever thought it up..Thanks

jerrys girl Posted: Jun 12, 2008 03:30 PM

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do it. a lot of people checked off they are attending but had no clue who they were.

lizzie217 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 03:30 PM

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I say do it..Ive heard so many stories you might as well save yourself the headache

Wedding999 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 03:31 PM

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i did - but everyone sent theres back ok

Browneyesncute Posted: Jun 12, 2008 03:31 PM

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DOH! i'm never going to get my invites out! lol

why don't people know how to fill out response cards!

Browneyesncute Posted: Jun 12, 2008 03:31 PM

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Posted by Cindyrella

i did - but everyone sent theres back ok

show off!

FCsBride914 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 03:31 PM

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Maybe I am a little slow, but I don't get it... How do you numbe that backs?

bluekat16 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 03:31 PM

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I think you should...especially because you can then check it against your list incase someone forgets to write their name in.

Browneyesncute Posted: Jun 12, 2008 03:41 PM

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Posted by KK Holiday

i think you should. if someone sends a blank one youll be kicking yourself for not doing it

ETA: my cousin also told me that for her response cards she was getting back people in the family who didnt include 1st names like

Mr. & Mrs. Smith

but she didnt know WHICH mr & mrs smith it was!!!

yeah thats what i'm afraid of

dannisayz Posted: Jun 12, 2008 03:48 PM

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I think you should. We have a lot of same last names and first names (stupid Italians ARG!) and it really helped.

futuremrsfab Posted: Jun 12, 2008 04:03 PM

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Sorry but I would definately- I know I have more than a couple relatives that will screw it up!

Wedding999 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 04:07 PM

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Posted by Browneyesncute

Posted by Cindyrella

i did - but everyone sent theres back ok

show off!

Yeah .. i forgot to mention

...those who actually filled them out did so correctly ....

but its 15 DAYS till my wedding and im still waiting on 13 PEOPLE to respond!!!!!! Even after calls and emails!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

TJ22908 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 04:15 PM

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I didn't and didn't have any problems

MJDoc12 Posted: Jun 12, 2008 04:20 PM

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Posted by FCsBride914

Maybe I am a little slow, but I don't get it... How do you numbe that backs?

you could use like a pencil or even a black light pen to put a # on the back of the RSVP cards.

so when you are putting the invites in their envelopes--you can have your address list in front of you, and number each invitee.

#1 Mr. & Mrs. Alan Ale
#2 Mr. & Mrs. Benjamin Block
#3....etc.

so that corresponding # of the person on your list--(like a spreadsheet) is written on the back of the rsvp card. so when someone sends their RSVP back......and if they don't fill in the M_______ part when you get the RSVP back--all you have to do is verify the # on the back with your invitee list to make sure you know who it is!