Should I ask this BM?
So let me start by saying that I hardly ever see my friends. We're all so busy. Some ahve been overseas, the rest are in grad school, med school, law school. We all went to separate colleges..but when we do talk and see each other, we're still friends. I asked 2 HS friends to be in my BP. One is a professor in China, who may or may not be in the US for the wedding, so she's a maybe, and another friend I asked is in med school and will eb starting her residency in the fall. She really wants to do it, but she has no way of knowing if she'd really be available until she starts her residency at which time it'll really be too late, so she told me I should ask someone else. I have another friend I thought of from the beginning, but I wasn;t sure if I should ask her. I haven't seen her much, but we were very close in HS and I saw her a few weeks ago when she came to my play. Since we don't talk often is it weird to ask her to be in the BP, or is it ok? I love her and I'd love for her to the part of it. What do you think?
