Should I be annoyed...

msmontoute Posted: Nov 18, 2010 06:31 PM

Should I be annoyed...

...that FH sister didn't respong to my parents engagement announcement or tell me congrats?.......

fdnybride163 Posted: Nov 18, 2010 06:33 PM

Re: Should I be annoyed...

how long have you been engaged?

have you talked to her since the announceements went out?

I would be a little annoyed but not enough to make a huge deal out of it. sometimes people flake.

if the next time you see her and she doesnt say anything then you have a righ to be annoyed

RandEWedding2011 Posted: Nov 18, 2010 06:34 PM

Re: Should I be annoyed...

Ehh don't let her ruin it for ya!! She prob doesn't realize that she shoul'd call you or she is just being lame!!

msmontoute Posted: Nov 18, 2010 06:36 PM

Re: Should I be annoyed...

HMMMM, ok, I am going to try and let it slide...but clearly, I am already annoyed. I really think she should have responded and said something...and see, she wonders why we have tension in the relationship...LOL

RandEWedding2011 Posted: Nov 18, 2010 06:39 PM

Re: Should I be annoyed...

Of course she SHOULD have but especially if you guys have had contention in your relationship before she may be doing this just to get you riled up...Dont let her get the best of you, make her look bad by being better and more gracious than her. If all Future IL did what they Should or what was right the whole marriage scene would be alot easier but they don't, dont let it get ya down.

msmontoute Posted: Nov 18, 2010 07:12 PM

Re: Should I be annoyed...

Thank you Elicia!! I am going to try and get it together....whooo saaa!!

And you are absolutely right, she probably is being shady...And just to give you context..the reasons that I don't like her are several....*looking around* I will just have to FM you that story later....LOL

She can kick rocks..that is all!

IrishAli Posted: Nov 18, 2010 08:20 PM

Re: Should I be annoyed...

Sigh. I always knew that I could judge my friends on who said congratulations!

The ones that didn't are not invited- tehehehehe. Some people just lack social graces

annabellagirl Posted: Nov 18, 2010 08:44 PM

Re: Should I be annoyed...

I must say..... i love my future SIL (FH's sis) but i cannot stand my current SIL - my brothers wife... she is an evil woman LOL

They have been together for many years, and I just can't stomach her.... very veryyyyy disrespectful to my family and mostly my Mom, which isn't cool!

SIL's just suck sometime!

However, my point is - DO NOT let anyone ruin your excitement....

Im not officially 'engaged' yet - eventho we ar ebooking everything lol... and i just know once we make our announcement, she will be the ONLY person not happy for me... just because she is LIKE THAT...

Im kinda hoping she doesnt come to my wedding :) Im so bad LOL