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should i be annoyed? (kinda long, sorry)
Original post by little j
okay. so bach party is this weekend. MOH has been planning everything and everyone has been great at keeping it a surprise.
my sis HAS TO work saturday (no biggie), so she was planning on meeting us saturday night. she doesnt drive so she is taking the train.
appppparentllllyyy...now there is an issue. she ASSUMED someone would be picking her up from the train station. MOH told her its a short taxi ride away, and figured she would just take a taxi
apparently, it has become a big deal.
of course, with the same timing, my sis is dealin with stuff at home (stupid, loser boyfriend!!!) and a lot at work (tax season), so she is already stressed.....
so my mom decided to tell me the issue last night. i told her i KNOW NOTHING about the weekend, so i cant help (is that selfish of me?)...anyway, my mom decides to TELL ME THE TRAIN STATION. W T FFFFFFFFF. it is an effing surprissseeeeee. i wont have my car. how could i help?!?!?
so i told my mom i KNOW NOTHINGGGG. so i couldnt help. and i thanked her (yeah, ok![]()
) for tellin me the station. she got offended ![]()
so now i get to work and read my email....sis FORWARDS ME AN EMAIL titled 'FW: Bachelorette party - final details WOOHOOOOO!'
what the heck????????
so of course i dont wanna read it cuz i dont wanna ruin the surprise!!!...so i scroll down slowly....
in the message my sister says: 'I know I'm only a bridesmaid and the brides sister, = but really is such rude treatment warranted'......so i scroll down
it has to do with my sis being offended no one will pick her up.....and i learned (which i didnt want to knoww!!!) where we are going is like LESS THAN A MILEEEE from the train station!!!!
soooooo......honestly, i dont see the big deal about the pickup/taxi thing. we are all adults. is that mean of me?
and im annoyedddd that my mom and sis are taking this to be such a big deal that they would go ahead AND RUIN MY SURPRISSEE!!! i know my mom told me the train...but my sis FORWARDED ME A POTENTIALLY DETAILED EMAIL! (i deleted the email)
and i feel bad for my MOH planning things and then they go ruin the surprise cuz she cant get a ride. like ***.
i know i should be more sensitive perhaps cuz she is dealin with other drama.....but should i be annoyed? am i over-reacting?
my sis HAS TO work saturday (no biggie), so she was planning on meeting us saturday night. she doesnt drive so she is taking the train.
appppparentllllyyy...now there is an issue. she ASSUMED someone would be picking her up from the train station. MOH told her its a short taxi ride away, and figured she would just take a taxi
apparently, it has become a big deal.
of course, with the same timing, my sis is dealin with stuff at home (stupid, loser boyfriend!!!) and a lot at work (tax season), so she is already stressed.....
so my mom decided to tell me the issue last night. i told her i KNOW NOTHING about the weekend, so i cant help (is that selfish of me?)...anyway, my mom decides to TELL ME THE TRAIN STATION. W T FFFFFFFFF. it is an effing surprissseeeeee. i wont have my car. how could i help?!?!?
so i told my mom i KNOW NOTHINGGGG. so i couldnt help. and i thanked her (yeah, ok
so now i get to work and read my email....sis FORWARDS ME AN EMAIL titled 'FW: Bachelorette party - final details WOOHOOOOO!'
what the heck????????
so of course i dont wanna read it cuz i dont wanna ruin the surprise!!!...so i scroll down slowly....
in the message my sister says: 'I know I'm only a bridesmaid and the brides sister, = but really is such rude treatment warranted'......so i scroll down
it has to do with my sis being offended no one will pick her up.....and i learned (which i didnt want to knoww!!!) where we are going is like LESS THAN A MILEEEE from the train station!!!!
soooooo......honestly, i dont see the big deal about the pickup/taxi thing. we are all adults. is that mean of me?
and im annoyedddd that my mom and sis are taking this to be such a big deal that they would go ahead AND RUIN MY SURPRISSEE!!! i know my mom told me the train...but my sis FORWARDED ME A POTENTIALLY DETAILED EMAIL! (i deleted the email)
and i feel bad for my MOH planning things and then they go ruin the surprise cuz she cant get a ride. like ***.
i know i should be more sensitive perhaps cuz she is dealin with other drama.....but should i be annoyed? am i over-reacting?
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Re: should i be annoyed? (kinda long, sorry)
I don't think you said anything wrong or over-reacting. You have nothing to do with the planning and it is just a short cab ride. You're the bride to be and should get special treatment not the other girls, you should be driven around.
