Should I be suspicious?

Should I be suspicious?

My DH left his wedding ring on the shelf in the bathroom today. I called him and he says that he forgot to put it back on after putting on his moisturizer(yes, he wears moisturizer). I really have no reason to doubt him, but my mind just started going places. Maybe I watch too many Lifetime movies.

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If this is the only instance that would make you suspicious, then I'd wait before worrying.

I take my rings off every night before I go to bed, and I have forgotten to put them on once or twice when leaving the house. It doesn't mean I love my DH any less or am looking to cheat.

I'm sure it's okay.

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My DH forgot his on the bathroom shelf a couple of times after his a.m. grooming, I wouldn't be worried.

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He's not a pilot with a wife in every hub, is he???
Wait, I don't think that was a Lifetime movie ... but Jack Wagner was a hottie in it anyway


I wouldn't worry!! I like to bust DH's chops all the time when he forgets ...

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I'd only be suspicious if he acted funny when you questioned him. Anyway, guys don't need to take their rings off to cheat.

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I don't think I'd be suspicious at all. Maybe you should have taken it, not tell him and have him freak out when he realized it wasn't where he left it.

My DH took it off once (I don't know why) and left it next to the stick of his Mustang. We got out of the car to get a carwash and he realized that he left it there as we were walking through the car wash. I screamed at him telling him that if the vacuum sucked it up I was going to be extremely pissed! Well thank God it was in the same place he left it.

I think the shock of losing it scared him into never taking it off again.

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Nah. Guys are stupid and forgetful.

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Posted by heidla



Thanks ladies. I am glad to know that other men forget their's. I think I am just a little upset that he forgot it today because it is the 5 yr. anniversary of our first date.

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Really? Happy Anniversary! Our 5 year dating anniversary is this month too!

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I wouldn't be suspious my Dh has dont that 2 times already when he gets up for work and he forgot to put it on. i said to him what happened you forgot to put your ring on this morning? lol. and he was like yea. i tell him now dont forget to put the rings on so the ladies cant flirt with you. .

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Was he with a hooker when you called him? No? Then he probably just forgot!

Mr Boots can't get his claddagh ring off because his fingers are too sausagey!

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Posted by MonkeyLuv

Was he with a hooker when you called him? No? Then he probably just forgot!

Mr Boots can't get his calddagh ring off because his fingers are too sausagey!

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Funny story, one of DH's friends was engaged and they broke up when he WAS with a hooker and his cell redialed his FI and she heard the whole thing!

ETA: I am SURE this isn't the case with his ring. Men just forget, which I don't understand because I have NEVER forgotten to wear my ring. But I don't forget to wear deodorant or brush my teeth, which he also forgets sometimes.

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I agree, unless this is one more thing piled on top of other suspicious behavior - I would just ignore it and write it off as simple forgetfullness! Craig never takes his ring off, but I've forgotten to put mine back on more than once - sometimes not even noticing until the next day! Don't worry - maybe you have been watching too many Lifetime movies...

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of course not you silly girl. who would cheat on you?

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My husband takes his ring off to wash the dishes he forgets it my the sink in the am sometimes.
Oncee he drove back & lunch, b/c the plumber was supposed to come& he didn''t want him to take it

He just isn't used to wearign jewelery. I forgot my engagement ring a few times in the beginning.

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Heidi, I understand your concerns (amplified by the fact that its your 5 yr dating anniversay - congrats ).

But I think this is totally a 'guy thing' I know that if I suspected my hubby EVERYTIME he forgot to wear his ring , I'd be a stressed out mess! Meaning, Anthony forgets his ring ALL THE TIME (he's gotten better, mind you) and I truly chalk it up to being 1/2 out of it in the mornings, as well as not being a jewlery guy overall

No worries !!