Should I be upset??

Original post by Jbriggs

Dec 19, 2005 03:40 PM

I have been friends with my maid of honor long time. Anyway she just got engaged last week. I just found out she chose an aunt to be her maid of honor over me.. Should I be upset and or hurt? I mean I am still in the wedding.

How would you feel? I mean am i being over sensitive here?

Jbriggs Posted: Dec 19, 2005 05:52 PM

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Thanks ladies for ALL your honest answers.. WHAT WOULD I DO WITHOUT YOU ALL!!!!!!!!!

suzybilly819 Posted: Dec 19, 2005 05:53 PM

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Don't be insulted. Respect her decision and support her with her wedding planning.

PegaLega Posted: Dec 19, 2005 11:22 PM

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Posted by BernandRob

I wouldn't be upset. Like other people said she probably has a good reason for choosen her aunt. Don't take it to heart. If you weren't in the BP at all then I would be upset.

Agreed! I wouldnt get upset-I can see why you would be but if you werent in it at all then I would wonder ***

SPITSBRIDE Posted: Dec 20, 2005 08:54 AM

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Posted by PrincessRose

I understand your being hurt - it always hurts to hear that you're not as important to someone as they are to you. I wouldn't let it bother you too long though - she's probably got a very good reason for choosing this aunt.

I couldn't have said it better