Should I be upset - no bachelorette party

Should I be upset, I'm not having a bachelorette party. Things just got so crazy so fast and before you know it it's 3 weeks to the big day. The week before our wedding is the rehersal dinner. So it only really leaves this weekend and next. No one has said anything to me. You'd think they would invite me. HAHAHA Oh well...

Should I be upset - no bachelorette party

I am having kind of the opposite problem. I also have three weeks to go, and know that I am having a bachelorette party on the 18th - but I don't want to do what they have planned! Not to mention the issues I am having with the bachelor party!!! I think either they are doing something and keeping it a surprise, or maybe they don't know that you were looking for one. One thing I have found out is that everyone has their own ideas when it comes to a wedding. Maybe you should place some subtle hints and see what happens by next weekend.

Hmmmmm?

oh, I forgot to mention, next weekend I've got moving day. Oh well!

Should I be upset - no bachelorette party

No, this has been discussed among all of us. We just never picked a day. Now it's a little late.

Hmmmmm?

Just my experience but...... All of the brides I have been close enough to to either help plan or attend their bachelorette parties, have had a major part in planning it themselves. Sure everyone may pitch in and make sure the night is on the girls and not the bride, but the bride has always done most of the planning. Whatever she wants to do, and on her schedule.

Hmmmmm?

I don't understand what the big deal is about a bachelor/ette party. You hang out and party w/ your friends anyway so what makes it so special? I told my girls not to even think about having one for me, we go out anyway and are always doing special things, so what would make a bachelorett party so different? I have enjoyed wedding shopping and planning w/ my girls and then going to a movie or dinner afterwards, so to me that's my bachelorett party. Ladies don't stress the small stuff remember the WEDDING is the most important 'party'!!

Bachelorette Party important to Caf73

I also do NOT agree that the bride should be the one planning the bachelorette. After all, she's the one with all the stress over planning the wedding, so who (in her right mind) wants the responsibility of planning a night out that's supposed to be in her honor and therefore, planned by her maids and close friends? I'm all for the surprise, and it's sad to hear your girls may have treated this as an oversight. See what happens. If nothing, than focus on the wedding and let it go! The bachelorette is so unimportant in the grand scheme of things.