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Should i be worried??

cmjd Posted:

Should i be worried??

So FH and i went and got our wedding rings today. Well, when he put the ring on his finger, he started sweating , his face turned red, heart started racing and looked like he was going to pass out!!!!!! On top of that , his finger swelled up and he couldnt get the ring off!!!!

irishgrl1017 Posted:

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haha I am sure its ok!

FutureMrsCarrieri Posted:

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oooo wow

I think that if this is the first time he responded this way then you shouldn't worry too much.

Sometimes it just hits them and they freak out over the commitment they're about to make -- and then they relax.

Did you talk to him about it?
bluekat16 Posted:

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I'm sure you have nothing to worry about. Because we (women) do all the planning we get to experience so many more of the emotions that come along with a wedding, the good, the bad and tyh e ugly. Men are only faced with it in certain decisions and that's why they may get impacted and overwhelmed with the imense meaning behind the day in those few instances. I think it may have just all hit him at once essentially......whereas for you it's porbably hit you since the first day you started planning.

Randilotus Posted:

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don't be worried!

mathteach Posted:

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No, don't worry. It didn't actually feel real to me until I tried on my wedding ring. He probably felt the same way. It's a little disconcerting, but then it's all better.

FutureMrs.T Posted:

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I wouldnt worry! Men react that way sometimes! its better than my fiance who has 'embraced' the wedding ring and have bought himself 4 so far because he cant decide which ones he likes and !which ones to return

FutureMrsCarrieri Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrs.T

I wouldnt worry! Men react that way sometimes! its better than my fiance who has 'embraced' the wedding ring and have bought himself 4 so far because he cant decide which ones he likes and !which ones to return



really?
JTsGal829 Posted:

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i wouldn't worry too much.. some guys are just nervous about the idea of marriage in general even though they have a wonderful woman they know they want to be with. I think it'll be ok!!
FutureMrs.T Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsCarrieri


Posted by FutureMrs.T

I wouldnt worry! Men react that way sometimes! its better than my fiance who has 'embraced' the wedding ring and have bought himself 4 so far because he cant decide which ones he likes and !which ones to return



really?



I am not lying. He was trying them on for me tonight asking my opinion!
madseason Posted:

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what kind of metal was it? could it have been an allergic reaction?

boky17 Posted:

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awwww. that remids me of the episode from sex and the city where Carrie tries on the wedding dresses and she gets all hot, and itchy, and crazy!! I'm sure he will be fine, might just be the initial shock!

SoonToBeMrsScott Posted:

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no its all a reality check its just nerves

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