Should I invite this person? (long)
My wedding is more than a year away, but I will be sending out STD's in about a month, so I have been contemplating the guest list and am on the fence about sending one, so I am coming to my LIwedding girls for advice!
I was friends with this girl starting in fifth grade, all the way through high school. When we went to college, the friendship died off somewhat, but we still kept in contact and managed to see each other. After college, the same thing, not as strong as HS, but still a friendship. When I got engaged, I was excited to call and tell her the news, since we had been friends for so long, I still considered her one of my good friends. When I spoke to her her reaction was not excited like the rest of my friends, but went along the lines of 'thats kind of fast, isn't it?' (FH and I had been dating a little over a year at this point.) I still can't figure out this reaction. I can't think of any reason she would be jealous, she had been dating a guy for almost a year (who I had never met, by the way). A few weeks after the proposal, my birthday came and went and I didn't even get a phone call. It had been tradition for us to go out every year. We got engaged in Dec, and now it is almost May and I haven't heard anything from her, not anything asking how the plans or going or even how I am doing. Granted I haven't called either, but I have been very hurt by all of this. So now I am deciding who to send STD's to and I have pretty much decided not to send her one but I wanted some unbiased opinions.
I was friends with this girl starting in fifth grade, all the way through high school. When we went to college, the friendship died off somewhat, but we still kept in contact and managed to see each other. After college, the same thing, not as strong as HS, but still a friendship. When I got engaged, I was excited to call and tell her the news, since we had been friends for so long, I still considered her one of my good friends. When I spoke to her her reaction was not excited like the rest of my friends, but went along the lines of 'thats kind of fast, isn't it?' (FH and I had been dating a little over a year at this point.) I still can't figure out this reaction. I can't think of any reason she would be jealous, she had been dating a guy for almost a year (who I had never met, by the way). A few weeks after the proposal, my birthday came and went and I didn't even get a phone call. It had been tradition for us to go out every year. We got engaged in Dec, and now it is almost May and I haven't heard anything from her, not anything asking how the plans or going or even how I am doing. Granted I haven't called either, but I have been very hurt by all of this. So now I am deciding who to send STD's to and I have pretty much decided not to send her one but I wanted some unbiased opinions.
