show of hands who wants to see the twisted email from fmil?????????????

Original post by jcslady

Jul 07, 2008 02:35 PM

SHE IS CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I NEVER TALK TO HER and this is what she sends me..

JC and Trish: OK -

I have given enough time and energy to all of this and quite frankly, I'm still grieving my brother's death. Just send me an invitation with the date, time and place and I'll show up to the wedding - I have no interest in speaking with your parents, Trish. I'll just wear something black that I already have, so your mother doesn't have to be concerned about me wearing the same color as her. No need to reply...

ahh... why can't she leave me the hell alone??? leave me out of your twisted head and please do me a favor and DON'T COME>>>>>>

jessnstu08 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 03:08 PM

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just ignore her. she is like my FMIL , can't be happy , always looking for drama. she wants a reaction from you ...don't give her one. neither should your FH. let her show up in a dress she already has ... as long as you look good, who cares . don't deal with her at all , and at the wedding you will be surrounded by your friends and family, she will fade into the backround .

trust me , for your sanity do not let her sabotage your day

MrsHtobe Posted: Jul 07, 2008 03:13 PM

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ewww, that was the most horrible thing I have ever read.

I wouldn't want her there!

Bride908 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 03:15 PM

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that is very wierd. what a wack-o. Whats your history with her? Did anything ever happen with you two before this?

sliwa2 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 03:18 PM

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Wow, that's crazy!

You would think she would be happy at a time like this -

Sorry

jcslady Posted: Jul 07, 2008 03:21 PM

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Posted by jessnstu08

just ignore her. she is like my FMIL , can't be happy , always looking for drama. she wants a reaction from you ...don't give her one. neither should your FH. let her show up in a dress she already has ... as long as you look good, who cares . don't deal with her at all , and at the wedding you will be surrounded by your friends and family, she will fade into the backround .

trust me , for your sanity do not let her sabotage your day

yep that is what i am gonna do ignore her

jcslady Posted: Jul 07, 2008 03:21 PM

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Posted by Bride908

that is very wierd. what a wack-o. Whats your history with her? Did anything ever happen with you two before this?

no we were never close she has issues and since fh cut her out she goes after me...

jessnstu08 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 03:36 PM

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Posted by jcslady

Posted by jessnstu08

just ignore her. she is like my FMIL , can't be happy , always looking for drama. she wants a reaction from you ...don't give her one. neither should your FH. let her show up in a dress she already has ... as long as you look good, who cares . don't deal with her at all , and at the wedding you will be surrounded by your friends and family, she will fade into the backround .

trust me , for your sanity do not let her sabotage your day

yep that is what i am gonna do ignore her

thats the best thing for you! I wouldn't give her a response ...indifference is the best revenge

alymikewedding08 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 03:49 PM

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what a nutjob!

fdny3113 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 03:49 PM

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OMG!!! thats F***** up!!!!! what a jerk

Maria31 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 04:15 PM

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What a wackjob!!
That sounds like a very poor attempt for sympathy and attention. Don't give it to her.. that's all she's looking for. If she didn't want you to reply... she wouldn't have written 'no need to reply...'. I smell reverse psychology and I would seriously just ignore it! She seems nuts! GL!

queenbean Posted: Jul 07, 2008 04:26 PM

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Wow, she is a classic example of a toxic person. I'm so sorry you have to deal with her Don't let her get in the way of your special day!

Kerin2804 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 04:29 PM

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Oh boy - I am so sorry she is like that - I do not know if I would even bother sending an invitation - that may be too much for her to handle. I am sorry for your loss.

chrissybean77 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 04:37 PM

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I'm so sorry you are dealing with this! She sounds nuts! It sounds like she is seeking negative attention. I wouldn't even respond, that kind of email doesn't deserve one. I'm sorry this is what you have to deal with in your FMIL.

emomma17 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 04:54 PM

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wowow i don't even know what to say to that one.

GinaZ Posted: Jul 07, 2008 04:59 PM

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ouch that was pretty rough of her!

mRm2008 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 05:09 PM

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sorry you have to deal w/ that
obviously not worth your time or effort to even care and in the end its HER LOSS

chrispar Posted: Jul 07, 2008 05:49 PM

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WOW all i can say is

klanghan Posted: Jul 07, 2008 06:26 PM

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I'm sorry you have to deal with her, but honestly, I keep thinking about your FH. I would be sooooooooooooo upset if i got an email like that from my mom. How is he doing with this email???

dannisayz Posted: Jul 07, 2008 06:27 PM

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Let her look like the arsehole. Enjoy your day and ignore her.

GinaBambina08 Posted: Jul 07, 2008 06:28 PM

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Uggggghh, she's obviously trying to get a rise out of you with that whole wearing black thing it's not so much the fact that she's wearing black but the way she said it