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gnrwedding14 Posted:

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I know that it's a year away but my sister is trying to get a rough number so she can budget. Just wondering if you guys are including the groomsmen's girlfriends and wives. I'm friends with 2 of them (like we'll hang out without the boys) but not sure if I should include the other 2 or 3. TIA!

Chaz Posted:

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I got lucky...all of FH's taken/married groomsmen are from FL. I didn't sent them invites.

MsA2MrsA Posted:

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We're not. Should we? I'm not friends with them and they wouldn't be invited if it wasn't for the guy. I am inviting my brothers gf though.

cets1290 Posted:

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we are inviting most of them... a few I'm not close with but we might just send them invites because they live out of state and prob won't come anyway... that way we cover our tracks! haha

larlynn Posted:

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I put two of FH's friend's significant others on my list....one because I was invited to her shower and another so she would know someone else. Had I not been invited to the girl's shower there is no way I would have included them.

MrsDtoBe Posted:

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I am close with them so yes. If we weren't friends I would not invite them.

meejack1110 Posted:

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I'm very close with two of the groomsmen's wives. So they will be invited. There is only one other, but I do not know her at all, and I think it would be weird to be like 'I don't know you but come bring me a present' so I will not be including her on my list.

Soon2BeMrsMango Posted:

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I am only inviting the people who are important to me there. If I wouldn't hang out with them alone I am not including them in my guest list for the shower.

summer2014 Posted:

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Posted by MrsDtoBe

I am close with them so yes. If we weren't friends I would not invite them.



This!!
kim24 Posted:

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I'm good friends with all FH groomsmens .. Except one and she's from FL so she won't come

sgf2 Posted:

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I'm probably going to invite most of FH's friends' girlfriends/wives. I've been invited to the majority of their bridal showers/baby showers/bachelorette parties/birthdays, and feel like it would be rude to not reciprocate. There's only one that I'm not inviting, and that's because she is a world class biotch. LOL

Soon2BeMrsPy Posted:

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I am, yes.

GoingToBoyle Posted:

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I personally think if they have been dating a long time or if they are married that you should invite them out of respect for the groomsmen. If you aren't close with them there is a good chance they won't come anyways! However, if you have never met them I don't think you have to invite them.

flynn14 Posted:

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I'm only inviting the gf or wives I'm friendly with. But I'm inviting all of the female family even tho I haven't met half of them! But they live out of the country so they won't come but in putting the offer ou there

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