My friend from work is due around the same time of my wedding so I know she defintely would not be able to attend it. Should she or should she not be invited to the shower when other coworkers will be? I don't know if it is rude to invite someone knowing they can't attend the wedding, then again, i don't want her to think she was just overlooked either.
Definitely invite her!!!
Let her decide to come or not. She should be invited with the rest of your coworkers. I think it would be hurtful to her to be excluded because she is due around that time.
You never know, people give birth early or late and she may be able to come.
I would invite her and let her make the decision.
i say invite her---since you know that she may not be able to attend your wedding, at least she can share your shower with you!:)
