Hi so I am currently working on my shower list (almost done) and it just dawn on me I didn't put the best man GF (whom I only met once and he has broken up with her a few times already) and one of the GM gf whom I only met once as well.
Do i need to invite them??? I am suppose to keep my list to 40 and I have 45 right now w/o them. I know I will have aleast 5 NOs (OOT).
TIA Ladies
Bride in 2012
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It's a nice gesture to invite them but you definitely don't have to.
Blonde_Glitz
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You don't have to invite them.
mjm2012
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i would say you don't have to especially if they won't know anyone else there.
Watermelon5
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Posted by Bride in 2012
It's a nice gesture to invite them but you definitely don't have to.
this!
LMEL1223
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i dont think you have to invite them
gmcamp
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I don't think you have to invite them esp since you haven't even met them a few times. Honestly, if I were in their position I'd rather not be invited because then I wouldn't feel pressured to give a gift.
FutureMrsCat050412
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I am leaving the guest list up to my mom & FMIL. I think my mom wants to do it in her house but FHs family is so big that she might not get to. I think on FHs side alone his mom mentioned 35 women. YIKES! i do not want to be involved in that :-P
MrsJPH2012
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'Technically' all the women invited to the wedding should be invited, BUT it seems like this guy is the one invited and she would be his guest for the wedding, and therefore I wouldn't count her in unless you wanted to. My shower should be limited to my own friends and females on both sides of the family, not the women that our male friends may be dating.
Bearsgirl
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I dont think you need to invite
Kuklitsa143
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thanks ladies, they didnt make the cut LOL
StephanieJoy
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dont think you have to.
FutureMrsGTL
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Im not inviting FH's friends gf's/wives... it would be a nice gesture, but I think they would feel weird not knowing anyone there.
but the guest list isnt really up to me, I sent my MOH a list of every female being invited to the wedding, her and my mom can knock themselves out figuring out who gets invited and who doesnt lol
CaughtMyFish
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not inviting any of the GM's girlfriends or wives to my shower. It's going to be hard enough to trim down my own list of friends.
PaddysGirl
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You dont have to.
jtbride2012
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You don't have to but I think it would be very nice if you do....I'm sure you'll get to know them very well over time and I think the BM and GM would really appreciate it. But again, its entirely up to you and you're not wrong either way.
berrie1121
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You definitely don't have to, its completely up to you ;)
