Shower- who's invited?

My bridesmaids are putting together my shower and have asked for a guest list. I'm having a small-ish wedding- 115 on the list. My mom thinks we should invite mine and my fiance's:
1.grandmothers
2.aunts

Include girlfriends and wives of ushers, too *NM*

2.aunts

Shower- who's invited?

We have 48 on my shower list and it is only:

His Grandmother (only one still living)

Shower- who's invited?

I gave my MOH a list that consisted of only the women I know. However, if there are family members or family friends on his side that I haven't met or don't know very well, I left that to my fiance's sister's discretion as to whether to send an invite or not. The wives of my fiance's friend's who I don't know that well I did not include. However I have heard people say that any female on the list gets a shower invite. I'm not comfortable with that so I opted to do it the way I did. I guess it's coming very soon, we're getting married in 43 days.

His Grandmother (only one still living)

Shower- who's invited?

Believe me, 30 is not too many; my list is about 80. Fi has a very large immediate family and his father likes to have his cousins invited as well. I had to cut down friends to accomodate the family.

Shower- who's invited?

yeah, I had over 100 people invited to my shower and 86 came! Talk about a big italian family!

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Shower- who's invited?

Definitly do not invite anyone that is not invited to the wedding.

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