sick of it vent

so I've been trying to get our e-pix taken forever now. each time something happens and they get canceled. now I ask FH if I can book them for the next weekend he says he doesnt know cause he doesnt have his schedule for then. he acts as if the whole thing is such a huge bother to him, and the moment I said that I am not doing them anymore cause obviously its not happening he got all 'oh so we can get a discount now' - no we cant!!!! its a present from the photog, and he knows it.

I dont want to take them anymore. sick of this whole thing! and on top of this flower appointment that I had to move cause FH asked me to for this saturday now he is going to miss cause of work and he didnt even let me know that he was asked to work just mentioned in passing this morning when I reminded him of flowers
I wish I just saved all this money and bought an apt and just got a city hall thing. I am sick of organizing this whole thing and him just demanding shyt to have at the wedding adn then making me do everything


I guess this is an FH vent

im sorry

have you tried talking to FH about his involvement? let him know that these pictures are really important to you and you really want them to be taken soon! Also, maybe ask that he help out with the wedding more...see what he says if u sit him down for a serious talk about it.

Sorry you are stressing maybe talk to him and tell him that this is all bothering you and that you need his support

maybe he doesnt get the point of the pics. did you talk about what you will do with the pics (like are you having stds made?) or table numbers?

he might just not get it... sorry...

he knows very well how important these pix are to me. I want to send them to my parents along with the pix from my aunt's house when she threw us a celebrating dinner for our engagement.
my parents never met him, just spoke on the phone a bit and they want to feel apart of this whole thing. and I wanted to send them around my/brother's/mom's bday.. guess it aint happening!

on monday FH researched katubah and kipas and got a headache just from that
I said to him 'welcome to my world '

Aww don't stress...in the long run, conflicts with e-pics are not the end of the world, and when you do them it will be perfect. It seems like a lot of little things are stressing you out, but don't woryy, it will all work out

what a PIA he is lol. welcome to my world!..

i dont have any advice to give, cuz i would just scream and bish til he says yes about pix lol

youre way more mature than i am lol

not sure how mature I am cause its not like he doesnt want to take them, he is just so ambivalent about them, which what psses me off. and I guess that I blame him more than it his fault cause I want something/someone to be mad at cause this whole thing is not working out.
like Heather said: every little thing stresses me out.
I shouldnt be mad at him I suppose