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Original post by florezpeeps

Long story made very short: my mom changed the shower date & my matron of honor sent out the bridal shower invites with the original date..

I was in hysterics all day yesterday, thinking about the confusion, the possibility of putting people off from attending..the fact that the invite can't be a keepsake for my close friends and relatives bc it's wrong..so many things..my head was swooning, I was sitting at my work desk crying all day..I guess I wanted the first thing people got in the mail regarding our wedding to be special

Today, I am much more calmer, no longer balling..but can't shake the sadness..
Soon 2b Mrs Bev Posted:

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im so sorry

Espo22 Posted:

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awwww helen i am so sorry from what i know lisa is fixing the situation and dont worry everything will work out and these things happen. It wont cause people not to come, and not a big deal. Like i said before just about every event theres so much frustration, BS, and stress and no matter what you go through before, when the day of comes around it is the best day and all the problems that occured beforehand dont matter anymore. You will still have an amazing shower and have the best time of your life.

I told them that they need to make an invite just for you so you will have one with the right info.

Lisa is trying to throw you a great shower, and with all the details its easy to not notice some things i guess. We are all ready to help though if she needs it. I even told anne yesterday that as a BM i would like to do more and you know anne as your maid of honor also wants to help throw you an amazing shower
florezpeeps Posted:

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awwww helen i am so sorry from what i know lisa is fixing the situation and dont worry everything will work out and these things happen. It wont cause people not to come, and not a big deal. Like i said before just about every event theres so much frustration, BS, and stress and no matter what you go through before, when the day of comes around it is the best day and all the problems that occured beforehand dont matter anymore. You will still have an amazing shower and have the best time of your life.

I told them that they need to make an invite just for you so you will have one with the right info.

Lisa is trying to throw you a great shower, and with all the details its easy to not notice some things i guess. We are all ready to help though if she needs it. I even told anne yesterday that as a BM i would like to do more and you know anne as your maid of honor also wants to help throw you an amazing shower



Thanks so much babygirl..I love you girls & appreciate everything and I know Lisa would never intentionally do something to hurt me, if anything always the opposite..I just couldn't wrap my head around what happened..I was shocked, frustrated, mad, sad so many things, I felt like a lunatic, well you heard me
Mici n KC Posted:

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You're shower is going to be wonderful!
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

awwww helen i am so sorry from what i know lisa is fixing the situation and dont worry everything will work out and these things happen. It wont cause people not to come, and not a big deal. Like i said before just about every event theres so much frustration, BS, and stress and no matter what you go through before, when the day of comes around it is the best day and all the problems that occured beforehand dont matter anymore. You will still have an amazing shower and have the best time of your life.

I told them that they need to make an invite just for you so you will have one with the right info.

Lisa is trying to throw you a great shower, and with all the details its easy to not notice some things i guess. We are all ready to help though if she needs it. I even told anne yesterday that as a BM i would like to do more and you know anne as your maid of honor also wants to help throw you an amazing shower



Thanks so much babygirl..I love you girls & appreciate everything and I know Lisa would never intentionally do something to hurt me, if anything always the opposite..I just couldn't wrap my head around what happened..I was shocked, frustrated, mad, sad so many things, I felt like a lunatic, well you heard me



i wish i could tell you but i have no clue how it happened i was just as clueless as you and called anne to find out.

like i said so many of us deal with alot of BS beforehand, i was so upset my surprise was ruined and thought it ruined my shower period but once the day came and i got there all that was erased from my head. Im sure many girls on here can say the same where they were so upset about things that happened before their shower or wedding but once the day came they didnt care about what happened before and still had the best time ever. You will see everyone there that loves you and is there for you on your special day, enjoy this time, and we are all here to give back to you and celebrate you, we are all so happy to do so after everything you've done for all of us and being such an amazing person. We are all happy to have you part of our lives and will do anything to make the best memories for you. We are going to have the best time at your shower
GinaZ Posted:

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thats too bad, but honestly, it will all turn out okay- they can make up a cute poem or somethign to mail out with teh correction.

florezpeeps Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

awwww helen i am so sorry from what i know lisa is fixing the situation and dont worry everything will work out and these things happen. It wont cause people not to come, and not a big deal. Like i said before just about every event theres so much frustration, BS, and stress and no matter what you go through before, when the day of comes around it is the best day and all the problems that occured beforehand dont matter anymore. You will still have an amazing shower and have the best time of your life.

I told them that they need to make an invite just for you so you will have one with the right info.

Lisa is trying to throw you a great shower, and with all the details its easy to not notice some things i guess. We are all ready to help though if she needs it. I even told anne yesterday that as a BM i would like to do more and you know anne as your maid of honor also wants to help throw you an amazing shower



Thanks so much babygirl..I love you girls & appreciate everything and I know Lisa would never intentionally do something to hurt me, if anything always the opposite..I just couldn't wrap my head around what happened..I was shocked, frustrated, mad, sad so many things, I felt like a lunatic, well you heard me



i wish i could tell you but i have no clue how it happened i was just as clueless as you and called anne to find out.

like i said so many of us deal with alot of BS beforehand, i was so upset my surprise was ruined and thought it ruined my shower period but once the day came and i got there all that was erased from my head. Im sure many girls on here can say the same where they were so upset about things that happened before their shower or wedding but once the day came they didnt care about what happened before and still had the best time ever. You will see everyone there that loves you and is there for you on your special day, enjoy this time, and we are all here to give back to you and celebrate you, we are all so happy to do so after everything you've done for all of us and being such an amazing person. We are all happy to have you part of our lives and will do anything to make the best memories for you. We are going to have the best time at your shower



I am very lucky to have the girls that I do surround me and care about me..and that's why I will never stop doing whatever I can for you girls! Thank you, I know you're right, I just have to stop thinking about it..maybe I'll preoccupy myself looking at baby shower stationary I KID I KID!
Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

awwww helen i am so sorry from what i know lisa is fixing the situation and dont worry everything will work out and these things happen. It wont cause people not to come, and not a big deal. Like i said before just about every event theres so much frustration, BS, and stress and no matter what you go through before, when the day of comes around it is the best day and all the problems that occured beforehand dont matter anymore. You will still have an amazing shower and have the best time of your life.

I told them that they need to make an invite just for you so you will have one with the right info.

Lisa is trying to throw you a great shower, and with all the details its easy to not notice some things i guess. We are all ready to help though if she needs it. I even told anne yesterday that as a BM i would like to do more and you know anne as your maid of honor also wants to help throw you an amazing shower



Thanks so much babygirl..I love you girls & appreciate everything and I know Lisa would never intentionally do something to hurt me, if anything always the opposite..I just couldn't wrap my head around what happened..I was shocked, frustrated, mad, sad so many things, I felt like a lunatic, well you heard me



i wish i could tell you but i have no clue how it happened i was just as clueless as you and called anne to find out.

like i said so many of us deal with alot of BS beforehand, i was so upset my surprise was ruined and thought it ruined my shower period but once the day came and i got there all that was erased from my head. Im sure many girls on here can say the same where they were so upset about things that happened before their shower or wedding but once the day came they didnt care about what happened before and still had the best time ever. You will see everyone there that loves you and is there for you on your special day, enjoy this time, and we are all here to give back to you and celebrate you, we are all so happy to do so after everything you've done for all of us and being such an amazing person. We are all happy to have you part of our lives and will do anything to make the best memories for you. We are going to have the best time at your shower



I am very lucky to have the girls that I do surround me and care about me..and that's why I will never stop doing whatever I can for you girls! Thank you, I know you're right, I just have to stop thinking about it..maybe I'll preoccupy myself looking at baby shower stationary I KID I KID!



wait for who? lol...i just got my period so no honeymoon baby lol i want to enjoy my newlywed life so hope you didnt mean me
agraydc Posted:

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can you send out a cute letter to explain the change and people can still keep everything as a keepsake with a cute story about changing the date

emomma17 Posted:

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I'm so sorry, it sounds like it would have been a frustrating situation, but it will all work out and you will have a beautiful shower! i'm glad you are feeling better today.
missliss Posted:

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awww, helen. I'm so sorry you feel all

But it will all be ok I promise, I'm sure they can correct it ASAP and it won't affect anyone's ability to come or not. Chin up.....you're almost there!!!
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