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SIL offered to pay for our HM....

dewdrop Posted:

SIL offered to pay for our HM....

here's a sticky subject....sort of.

my sister-in-law (brother's wife) offered to 'take care of our honeymoon' in an email last august. she & my brother are separated and so she said not to say anything to him yet, but it would be from the both of them. she said 'just buy your plane tickets and we'll take care of the rest'.

we talk all the time, mostly through email and she lives in another state. she hasn't brought it up again since though. i don't know how to bring it up to her either because it's a gift and i didn't expect it. i just want to plan things to do close to where we'll be staying in barcelona....

how would you bring it up?
SoVic08 Posted:

Re: SIL offered to pay for our HM....

Maybe you can say something like 'yea so we are FINALLY going to book our honeymoon this weekend' or somthing to that effect to let her know you still have to do it and hopefully you will spark a memory!

Butterfly123 Posted:

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Maybe just mention in an email to her that youre busy with planning your honeymoon, blah blah, and see if she mentions paying for it again...It is a sticky subject!

hannahshim Posted:

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Posted by Songstress1212

Maybe just mention in an email to her that youre busy with planning your honeymoon, blah blah, and see if she mentions paying for it again...It is a sticky subject!



thats exactly what I was going to say~ lol
dream426 Posted:

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I agree with writing to her saying you are planning your honeymoon. Maybe you can go on by saying what you are looking and how you are excited...blah blah and go on.

jgl Posted:

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i Would send her an email and give her an update on the wedding planning then make a statement like.. yeah and next is the honeymoon, i think we figured out where to go.. etc...

lkdrnw Posted:

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Just email her and mention you are thinking of booking the honeymoon soon, does she reccomend any place or someone to book through---hopefully she will remember

040508Bride Posted:

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i would somehow mention places that you're looking into...and see what she says. If she doesn't say anything, move along with your own plans :)

kslmbuggie Posted:

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def send her an email & say u are about 2 buy the plane tix...ur wedding is in feb so u should be getting 2 it soon anyway....i would get semi leery though if she hasnt mentioned it again so close 2 the wedding.

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