My BM want to know if I prefer they wear silver of dyeable shoes to match their dresses.
The problem is I dont care, they can wear what they want.
I have a MOH and 2 BM so I kinda want them to wear all the same, but which one.
These are the dresses- its hard to see but there is a silver an rinestone broach on the side.
Oh and my BM in FL said its tough to find dyeable shoe places by her.
So you ladies can choose b/c I dotn have an opinion about it- haha
Also- does it matter if they dont wear the same style shoes?
TIA!!
Snick n Nick
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I would say with a long dress it doesn't matter if their shoes aren't the same style, and generally they will probably get more use in the future out of a silver shoe (they might even have one already!) so I voted silver!
SparklingBride10
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I also vote for silver.
bluegreen08
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My BMs are wearing blue dresses as well (see my albums) and I told them silver shoes. Tissue Taffeta is shimmery and the blue probably wouldn't be exact anyway, and I'm trying to minimize expenses for them. I think silver shoes are easier to find on sale (or borrow, or they might even have them!), and are more re-wearable than blue dyeables.
I'm also NOT having them wear the same shoes because I want them to be comfortable. I am very picky with shoes (like high heels, dont like strappy shoes) and I know others prefer low heels or wider heels, etc. I told them all open toe silver shoes of their choice. This way they can also shop the sales if they want, and aren't on the same timeline for purchasing, or could wear or borrow silver shoes without needing to buy a second pair. If they were wearing a short dress I'd probably want them to wear something more similar, but BM shoes are hardly visible with long dresses.
Just my 2c
ILOVEBRIAN2008
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i say silver!
RKellner
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Thats my BMs dresses as well! Im just like you... I dont care what color shoes they wear... Or style... They can all be different if they want to... Its their money and they have to like it... Silver would go good.. Dyed would also... So Im at a loss!!!
111508Bride
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silver is way more classy...plus they can wear them again! btw, i love the color blue you chose.
TheFutureMrsM
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I am asking that my girls get gold shoes, open or closed, flat or high heel, i dont really care, i feel like they can get alot use out of it, and the dress is long
LuvMyAlfonse
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Posted by Snick n Nick
I would say with a long dress it doesn't matter if their shoes aren't the same style, and generally they will probably get more use in the future out of a silver shoe (they might even have one already!) so I voted silver!
ditto!
ChristineAaron08
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silver it is- thanks for making the decision for me ladies
I dotn want anyone wo think im being bridezilla at all so i dont like to tell them what to wear..although they keep asking me- lol
davenjess
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i think silver is the way to go simply because they can re-use the silver regularly - but the blue is VERY specific!
debismom
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Christine, Debi's BM gowns are almost the same color as yours. She told the girls to get silver shoes. Mary MOB
bemyyoko
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we have a similar dress color... i told my girls to get any silver shoe they want, as long as they aren't 'stripper shoes'
ChristineAaron08
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Posted by bemyyoko
we have a similar dress color... i told my girls to get any silver shoe they want, as long as they aren't 'stripper shoes'
stripper shoes..lol- none of my girls are stripperish..lol
where's tiki w/ her porn shoes
MrsD71208
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I definitely vote for silver! I think that with a dress that is in such a vibrant color as the one pictured, it would be too much to have shoes in the same color. I think silver will compliment the dress so much better and really work with the pin on the side.
bemyyoko
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Posted by ChristineAaron08
Posted by bemyyoko
we have a similar dress color... i told my girls to get any silver shoe they want, as long as they aren't 'stripper shoes'
stripper shoes..lol- none of my girls are stripperish..lol
where's tiki w/ her porn shoes
lol, none of mine are either! I think that's what made it funny... if anyone is wearing stripper shoes, it's me! I actually have a pair of white patent leather go-go boots that i might change into before the garter removal but shhhh it's a secret.
AmorPeruano
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My girls dresses are almost the identical color and although I told them they can do dyed to match or silver......all of them I believe are choosing silver! I think it would look really pretty with that color and the brooch
spanishitalian
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silver
DCLM726
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silver!
MsPotterhead
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I wore that dress in latte with silver shoes. Its a beautiful, flattering dress! I was thrilled that I got to wear silver shoes, we all picked out our own shoes, and I've worn them a few times since.
