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since i am venting....another long one

azailia Posted:

since i am venting....another long one

i am on a roll....

there is this girl i work with...

i always disliked her... she is so 'kind' that is it phony.. she just likes to gossip, etc...
but for some reason all of my friends were friends with her.. so i fell to peer pressure.. i figured, maybe she aint that bad...

one day early on the planning... me, another work friend and 'her', were supposed to check out a venue. last minute my other friend backe dout leaving me with 'her'. i couldnt get out of it, last minute so we went and yes it was torture.

so now i send her a Fing STD!!! Simply because i felt guilty and didnt want to hurt her feelings...

now this year she has gotten so much worse.. she is pregnant and she is driving everyone crazy now everyone cant stand her...

my shower invites went out, and it is a suprise and she is always talking aobut it.. oh i hopw i canmake it with the baby... she will end up telling me.. she is like that.. big BIG blabbermouth.. she is just out of control...

how can i get out of having her come?
i was going to say this... since you almost due, please dont feel you have to come to the shower you will be so uncomfortable... blah blah...

my friends said that if she has the baby she will probably bring it... UHH NO!!!!

then has anyone ever invited someonwe to the shower but not the wedding? i know that is awful.. but it is to the point where i actually don't care. i think i would prefer if she hated me, cause she would leave me alone.


oooh i am an awful person aren't I? you just have noe idea how bad she is.. really i am leavin gout sooooo much here!!

Just share your thoughts...feel free..i can take it!!
Tracey1979 Posted:

Re: since i am venting....another long one

Uggg, what a dilemma. However, you can't have her at the shower and not at the wedding, and she'll trash talk you to all her friends.

Remind her your shower is a surprise, and you don't want to hear about it, so please don't discuss around her (say in a jokey way).
azailia Posted:

Re: since i am venting....another long one

yo uknow what's funny.. everyone feels the same way... so people would actually agree with me

Gracie821 Posted:

Re: since i am venting....another long one

Sorry you are in this position, however, you have to invite her to the wedding. You can not invite her to the shower only. This just my opinion, and it is your wedding, but as much as you now can not stand her, I just think you not inviting her could cause much more drama than you are having now. This is just my opinion and I hope I haven't offended you. Good Luck!

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