since the engagement...

i was also listening to that as i drove to work today

We haven't changed really, we are just more concerned about money now and talk about money more, we really never did before. Things will start to change soon when we move in together, but not much-we know each other quirks already

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Posted by christine2010

nothing has changed. when we moved in together 3 years ago, thats when we found out what we hadn't known about each other already.

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yeah same here, we're on a tighter budget now as well...

since we dont live together and we dont plan on living together until we are married.. we just get frustrated easily.. like why cant we just get married NOWWW and live together NOW! but its good frustration i guess.


Same exact situation here!!! Very frustrating!
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Posted by Trose

since we dont live together and we dont plan on living together until we are married.. we just get frustrated easily.. like why cant we just get married NOWWW and live together NOW! but its good frustration i guess.


Same exact situation here!!! Very frustrating!
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i think we changed in a better way. We dont fight anymore lol

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Posted by Trose

since we dont live together and we dont plan on living together until we are married.. we just get frustrated easily.. like why cant we just get married NOWWW and live together NOW! but its good frustration i guess.


Same exact situation here!!! Very frustrating!
[how do you girls respond to someone's comment by including it in your reply? - i just had to copy and paste it in my message.]

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just hit the 'quote', next to reply!

lol FH and i were listening to the same thing this morning. i was pissed because they sounded like unhappy bitter men. i told FH that people dont change because of a piece of paper, they change because there's something deeper going on in their relationship. OK sorry rant over!

since we got engaged, our changes have been positive!

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Posted by Jna2010

we havent changed.... we used to always talk about marriage and kids way before we got engaged, we just feel more official now and like were taken seriously by others

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same here.
we talked about it all the time.
its nice not to have people ask
'so when are you getting married'

it drove me crazy!!
like we werent serious about each other or something!!

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I agree..fh and I dated for almost 3.5 years before getting engaged and everyone kept asking when we were getting married and saying I should give him an ultimatum...it was soo annoying bc i knew we were going to get married we just had to finish school

I also listened to z100 this morning,
I think FH is changing for the better and is becoming more of an adult..
and not shying away when the topic of 'Wedding' pops up.

That first month after being engaged was rough, yo. I am an only child set in my ways, and having to take someone else's opinion into consideration was a bitter pill to swallow for me.

But we worked through it, and things can not be better. We talk, a lot. About everything. Money is a big concern, but we're taking each other into account. We're really learning how to compromise and we love being engaged. We've got a groove going now and we're really enjoying this fun and exciting time.

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Posted by LaurenJosh

I think we actually argue less since we got engaged. We already lived together before so in that sense things haven't changed. We already know each others annoying quirks and instead of arguing about them, we kind of just let it go.

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ITA, I think FH and I are more patient with each other. We lived together for 2 years already. Just more official I guess. We always talked about getting married and our kids and stuff, now its just more talking about the wedding.

yea we changed we act like we have been married for 70 yrs