Sister (bridesmaid) vent

Ok I'm really mad right now. why is my stup1d sister texting me that 'MOH is making us (meaning her and other BM's) nervous'??? at 7:30 AM this morning??? So I call her and I'm like whats up? Shes like well we're (her and the other 3 BM's) sending her emails and shes not responding. So I'm like why don't u just call her? Shes like well I guess I'll have to call or maybe u can mention to her we're trying to get in touch with her? I'm like just call her maybe ur emails are being sent to her spam, like one of the other BM's were a few months ago. I said she told me shes looking for rooms for the b-party so I know she hasn't forgotten about me.


Its just really really really urks me that I'm jumping through hoops for her baby shower and shes basically asking me to help organize my own
shower. I'm sorry but she really upsets me. and hello, doesn't she know contacting the bride when things are going wrong is the very very
very last resort???????????????????????????



thanks for listening!!

Awww I am sorry you are having to go through this they should really have you as a very last resort.

That *****!!!!!! They really shouldn't involve you, but I would call you sister and tell her to get in touch with them. And then it is done and over with. Do your BM's know your sis, sometimes it's a little intimidating to call someone you don't know. I went thru the same thing with my sis and FSIL. My sis said FSIL wasn't answering emails, well her computer was broken so she couldn't see them! I told my sis just call her and she did! Done end of story. You can't make people check email, just pick up the phone Jeez, I understand your frustration. Good Luck with the girls!!! If this is your BM problem thank your lucky stars, have you read some of the horror stories, just another way to look at it!

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Posted by diva7531

That *****!!!!!! They really shouldn't involve you, but I would call you sister and tell her to get in touch with them. And then it is done and over with. Do your BM's know your sis, sometimes it's a little intimidating to call someone you don't know. I went thru the same thing with my sis and FSIL. My sis said FSIL wasn't answering emails, well her computer was broken so she couldn't see them! I told my sis just call her and she did! Done end of story. You can't make people check email, just pick up the phone Jeez, I understand your frustration. Good Luck with the girls!!! If this is your BM problem thank your lucky stars, have you read some of the horror stories, just another way to look at it!

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well my sister is actually just a bm the moh is my FSIL who i thought was doing everything she was supposed to. my sister (the bm) knows my FSIL and so does one of the other girls in my BP. they don't hang out but they should be comfortable enough to call each other.
i agree they just need to stop being lazy and emailing each other and just pick up the freakin phone!!
thanks for listening.

Sorry you have to deal w/ this. Your sister and mine must know each other because my sister wants me to do everything for her but she never makes an effort - ever- for me.

Tell your MOH that they are trying to contact her & then don't deal w/ it again....
I honestly would ignore her texts as well. She's just going to drive you crazy.

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Posted by HollyMac

Sorry you have to deal w/ this. Your sister and mine must know each other because my sister wants me to do everything for her but she never makes an effort - ever- for me.

Tell your MOH that they are trying to contact her & then don't deal w/ it again....
I honestly would ignore her texts as well. She's just going to drive you crazy.

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thanks for the support. i have a huge headache because of her.

SORRY YOUR DEALING WITH THESE ISSUES, HANG IN THERE, ALL WILL WORK OUT, BUT THAT IS Bullsh.....THAT SHE IS DOING THIS TO YOU.....
AND YES YOUR RIGHT, CONTACTING THE BRIDE TO COMPLAIN IS NEVER A GOOD IDEA, BUT ALL THESE GIRLS STILL SEEM TO BOTHER US BRIDES AND DRIVE US CRAZY WITH SUCH NONSENSE, CANT THEY ALL SUCK IT UP AND SAY, WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE THIS DAY JUST PERFECT FOR THE BRIDE, I HATE TO SAY THIS, BUT I REALLY STARTING THE THINK MANY PEOPLE ARE JUST VERY JELEAOUS AND ONLY THINK OF THEMSELF....HANG IN THERE, THINGS WILL TURN AROUND.

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Posted by KRISTYRUSSELL

SORRY YOUR DEALING WITH THESE ISSUES, HANG IN THERE, ALL WILL WORK OUT, BUT THAT IS Bullsh.....THAT SHE IS DOING THIS TO YOU.....
AND YES YOUR RIGHT, CONTACTING THE BRIDE TO COMPLAIN IS NEVER A GOOD IDEA, BUT ALL THESE GIRLS STILL SEEM TO BOTHER US BRIDES AND DRIVE US CRAZY WITH SUCH NONSENSE, CANT THEY ALL SUCK IT UP AND SAY, WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE THIS DAY JUST PERFECT FOR THE BRIDE, I HATE TO SAY THIS, BUT I REALLY STARTING THE THINK MANY PEOPLE ARE JUST VERY JELEAOUS AND ONLY THINK OF THEMSELF....HANG IN THERE, THINGS WILL TURN AROUND.

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AMEN SISTA!!