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hwolf812 Posted: Nov 25, 2007 03:16 PM

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I seriously have issues. I have 8 months to go to the wedding. Plenty of time. So why am I stressing little things that are so far away? Anyone else feel like this?

npwedding Posted: Nov 25, 2007 03:18 PM

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I am TOTALLY in the same boat and wrote a very similar post a few days ago. The girls were really nice - they told me that it's perfectly normal and not to worry too much. Everything will fall into place! Try going online and ordering something, or working on your guest list. I seem to only feel better after I get stuff accomplished!

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Nov 25, 2007 03:21 PM

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Yup- I stressed at 8 months too.

Now I'm at 4 months and I'm REALLY stressing!

Anything you can get done early- do it.

Annoulak Posted: Nov 25, 2007 03:23 PM

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last night i was at a get-together with my friends and talk turned towards my wedding plans and all of a sudden i burst into tears because i'm so overwhelmed...and i've got almost a year to go!

My friends were supportive, too, and they gave me very good advice:
the 2 most important things that they remember about weddings is the food and the music.

This, of course, reflects only my friends, but for the most part, they're right! Ten years from now, we (as brides) may remember our centerpieces and our flower girl baskets and table card holders, but in the end we get worked up about all these details that our guests will most probably not even think twice about.

hwolf812 Posted: Nov 25, 2007 03:24 PM

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Thanks ladies--its good to know that I am not the only one who feels like this...

MrsD71208 Posted: Nov 25, 2007 03:25 PM

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What are you stressing over exactly?

shoegal68 Posted: Nov 25, 2007 03:27 PM

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don't worry you are not alone..

i'm freaking today i have so many little things AND i have to worry about my mom & sister.. i don't understand why but they are dragging their feet with EVERYTHING!! My mother doesn't drive & my sister claims she never has time. i still get ' you have time' with 5 months away!!

don't worry helene you don't have issues

empressdani Posted: Nov 25, 2007 03:27 PM

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I totally understand how you feel...i need to take up meditation again

hwolf812 Posted: Nov 25, 2007 03:29 PM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe

What are you stressing over exactly?

just really silly things. like today i was like who is going to check us into the hotel and how are we going to get our car to the hotel. how am i going to get mt dress home...stupid stupid things

TheFutureMrsM Posted: Nov 25, 2007 03:34 PM

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I am stressing BIG TIME, over little things, i dont feel like i have enough time or energy to figure things out
your not alone

MrsD71208 Posted: Nov 25, 2007 03:37 PM

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Posted by hwolf812

Posted by MrsDtoBe

What are you stressing over exactly?

just really silly things. like today i was like who is going to check us into the hotel and how are we going to get our car to the hotel. how am i going to get mt dress home...stupid stupid things

Aww...don't get all worked up about those things. Think big and get big things done..the little things always fall into place somehow. This has been my approach and so far so good!

FutureMrsCarrieri Posted: Nov 25, 2007 03:58 PM

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I feel the same way :(
I still don't have a DJ or a limo or BM dresses

hwolf812 Posted: Nov 25, 2007 04:08 PM

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oh and by the way we went to church this morning in the church were getting married in and i was walking down the center aisle with him i was like ohhhhh MAN this aisle is LOOOOOONG. i wanted to scream!

MeaganAndJoeC Posted: Nov 25, 2007 05:17 PM

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Posted by hwolf812

oh and by the way we went to church this morning in the church were getting married in and i was walking down the center aisle with him i was like ohhhhh MAN this aisle is LOOOOOONG. i wanted to scream!

I think that the longer the aisle the better that way I can sit all the way in the front and look at your beautiful face. LOVE YAH

hwolf812 Posted: Nov 25, 2007 06:19 PM

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thanks hot stuff, i may need you to carry me down though

MeaganAndJoeC Posted: Nov 25, 2007 06:22 PM

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dont worry i have been lifting weights just for you

hwolf812 Posted: Nov 25, 2007 06:24 PM

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oh meagan i am going back to the gym on January 1st because if i dont you know what i am going to be?

lela9282008 Posted: Nov 25, 2007 06:43 PM

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I totally understand, my wedding is in September and i am already freaking out about little things. I guess i feel like i want to cover everything now so i will not be as stressed or overwhelmed near the wedding.

JulyBride728 Posted: Nov 25, 2007 07:17 PM

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OMG...I thought I was the only one! I too have 8 months to go, but for some reason I feel as if I'm running out of time

I'm already starting to have nightmares where in my dreams, I'm always dreaming that it's my wedding day and there were sooo many things that I forgot to do!!! ugggh