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SO ANNOYED!!!!! hospital drama

Original post by Espo22

ok just called my mom and now let me briefly explain what happened monday before i tell you what they said today.

On monday is when they found out my dad has 2 blocked arteries. They told him they will take him to another hospital to do the surgery. Now before the doctor could say where my dad said 'Oh what about LIJ' the doctor said no we're going to take you to Lennox hill hospital and my dad said ok, the docs even said they'll be there too.

oK monday nobody came so fine. Next day my dad asked when is LENNOX HILL coming? they said it takes time so ok fine. Wednesday he asked the nurse again and she even called up Lennox hill.

Now to today-my mom told me that when he asked and somebody checked, well they told him, now get this 'ITS HIS FAULT' they said well you said you wanted LIJ' are these people out of their D*MN minds. He suggested it and the doctors said no and obviously its not him who calls to do this. ALl along the nurses and docs have been saying lennox hill, he even asked if they can call lennox hill so why today are they acting like they thought it was LIJ. Ok and if they thought that, did they call LIJ or have they come-NOOOOOO

obviously somebody messed up and now theyre blaming him. Well they said he'll be moved this afternoon so lets see
chrispar Posted:

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How annoying. Hopefully by now they have moved him. It was obviously a huge mistake on their part. I mean 4 days is a little ridiculous.
mao0426 Posted:

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It is so sad how people never want to take the blame for their own mistakes...but to then go and blame a patient...thats just too much...I hope everything works out for your father and he doesnt have to deal with any more of this stress so he can get well.

TJ22908 Posted:

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Posted by TJ22908

My mom was in the hospital last year and the whole staff was a binch of idiots so we tried to get her transfored, her personal doctor even signed off on it but the hospital just would not make it happen so my father finally had to check her out and bring her to the other emergency room..they said that they wouldn't cover if anything happened while she was being transported but nothing happened and it was so much better. but my point is that sometimes they do such stupid things and don't think about the fact that these are people they are dealing with real issues!!!



OH WOW that is crazy. Yeah i was thinking before, are they telling me lennox is so full that if anybody in the area called an ambulance they wouldn't admit anybody for 3 days. I swear that thought crossed my mind, ill just call 911 while hes still in that hospital well maybe right outside lol. I am gonna call before i leave work to see if he is at lennox today. I wanted to go see him today and i dont even know where to go.



Yea it is so frustrating cause I can't imagine they are that full not too take him for that long. This is a person that needs help I would keep on top of them so that they don't let it slide agains...I hope everything works out soon!!!
JACK808 Posted:

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I'm sorry your family has to go through all of this. It is hard enough to deal with a loved one being in the hospital without dealing with any other bs. I hope everything works out and that your dad is feeling better soon!

MrsK2008 Posted:

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That is awful.

I hope everything gets worked out.

I can't imagine what u must be feeling right now

shoegal68 Posted:

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so sorry you are going through this additional stress. i know you just want your Dad to get better., you don't need any of this blaming BS.

hope this gets straightened out & your dad gets the best medical care

DiamondPipa Posted:

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i'm so sorry to hear this....i hope your dad has a speedy recover
tlp123 Posted:

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There is nothing more infuriating than this kind of incompetence. Nothing. Peoples' lives are in their hands and they make mistakes, and don't even own up to them.

Please keep us posted. I wish your father a speedy recovery.
sassygirl9 Posted:

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OMG Espo, that's horrible,
What a cop out man...they need to get on the ball.
I hope they get it together
the future mrs m Posted:

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denise you and your family need to put your foot up tehir arses because my dad was in the hospital last yr fighting for his life and i am seriously telling you that you need to have a family ADVOCATE with your dad at all times. don't let them give you the run around. mention that you dont want your lawyer to come and deal with the situation and see how fast they get moving. good luck. you are in my prayers.

babygirlb Posted:

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OMG! I will pray that everything works out with your dad. Hospitals are the worst. No offense to any medical professionals on the site. They screw up all the time.

Cutechef729 Posted:

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I'm so sorry that you and you're family has to deal with this! It's stressful enough that he even has to be in the hospital but now they are just being jerks! I hope that they were able to figure it out and you can all stop worrying for a little while. Until then,
minibride08 Posted:

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I'm just reading this now from this afternoon & I hope by now your dad has moved!!! If he hasn't, I agree with what you said about calling Lennox directly & speak to a supervisor or something... This is just too much!!
SoontobeMrsMc Posted:

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Sometimes people can be so incompetent. It's a shame when it's regarding such a serious issue. How is your dad feeling? I would speak to someone higher than these nurses in order to ensure that everything is taken care of. Hope it all works out... xoxo

GinaBambina08 Posted:

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that *****! i'm sorry to hear about your dad, my mom had blocked arteries too and they had to give her stents...she went to lenox hill
anamaree77 Posted:

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oh how annoying. I'm so sorry to hear all this hospital drama, I hope they get their acts together and QUICK! You guys will be in my prayers.
empressdani Posted:

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that is such BS!! There would have been a riot in the hospital if I was there
iwannabmrsD Posted:

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hey.. has he been moved yet? dealin with hospitals is the WORST. i' spent YEARS in it with my dad.. couple of suggestions..

tell mom or whoever is at the hospital to get a notepad..

write down EVERYTHING.. the nurses, the assistants, whoever comes into his room, or to attned to him. take their names, note the time and ask what are they there to do.. write it down.. (they HATE that)

find out where in the hospital is the patient advocate.. go visit her and make yourselves known.. that u'r unhappy and unsatisfied.. they get *ish done.. but folks don't normally go to them..

just to repeat the first thing.. WRITE EVERYTHING DOWN.. if they ask u what for (cause eventually some rude nurses aide will) tell them it's for u'r notes in case u have to contact the Bureau of license and professions in Albany.

and liek someone said, have someone there with ur dad all the time if possible.. in a hospital setting squeaky wheel ALWAYS gets the oil..

i hope your dad has a quick recovery!!!

fl2008 Posted:

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oh god, friggen ppl, they just want to point fingers, bc u know they are just never wrong whatever, idiots

Espo22 Posted:

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UPDATE:

went today to the hospital, uhmmm the doctors tried discharging him, he was like NO i need to get this taken care of now and yelled about how they told him this morning sorry for the mix up and that they were on their way so yes it got worse. While i was there the nighttime doc came in and said 'oh you want to be discharged right? well we can discharge you now' i tell the doc about what has happened, he said oh i dont know about that, so i said ok well let me explain to you then, so as i tell him he kept saying 'oh i dont' i just looked at him SHOCKED, like ok i get it thats why if you listen to me maybe you can understand and tell us what to do. He walked away confused and didnt know what to say so yeah he was helpful . On top of that they tried discharging him and gave him a docs name to go make an appointment on his own. He called the doc and the surgery was for hemmorhoids, the doctor said to my dad 'I can't do this surgery, if you have heart problems, i cant give you anesthesia you need to have your heart surgery first and then come to me' i dont know why they thought its more important to take care of his hemmorhoids first and not his heart and how can they even send him for that if he cant have anesthesia now

Anyways after some more BS, go downstairs to look for somebody to talk to since the nurses and docs on that floor didn't know what was going on. Ok luckily we were looking around because security came up to us to ask if we needed help. I told him what the situation was and guess what!!! Once we told him, he was like OH you have to go talk to so and so, they left at 5 but will be back early in the morning and to go talk to them at 8am. SO after talking to docs and nurses, asking questions nobody could answer anything and everyone was giving different answers. BUT out of all people it was the security guard who told us exactly what to do and who to speak to, so he is the one who came through. I wish i would've known earlier, i would've gone straight to him. Its crazy but funny at the same time, fh and i walked away and kept laughing about how it took security to help us. At least somebody knows whats going on

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