So fed up!!! Opinions...

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Posted by Cataverri

Well was that the dress you originally wanted?

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Nope! Never even had an opportunity to go look for flower girl dresses at all.

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Posted by Soon2bShea

Yup...I'd be pretty pissed. I would make a comment like 'thats pretty but I am planning on having her wear a different dress. is this returnable?'

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This! Unless you like the dress she picked.

Annoyed to say the least!

FSIL decided to take it upon herself to purchase these things already. I literally found out about it at my bridal shower through the grape vine. It wasn't even told directly to me!!!
I'm sooooooooooooo mad. I literally refuse to see the dress in person or have any other involvement w/ this flower girl dress. But, it still pisses me off.

Last night she pretty much shoved a pic of her daughter in the dress and was like 'what do you think?' SERIOUSLY! NOWWWWWWWWWWW SHE WANTS TO KNOW WHAT I THINK...AFTERRRRR SHE BOUGHT THE DRESS.

Oh, by the way, the headpiece has a freaking veil attached to it! It looks like its her effin communion! ANDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD my dress is off white- her daughter's dress is white!

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Posted by justnicethings

I'd be really pissed. If you don't like the dress, politely ask her if she has a receipt.

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Last night when she asked me whether I liked it, I just kept telling her I don't care repeatedly. She sensed something was wrong, but who the hell knows if she was smart enough to figure it out!!!!

She did tell me...'ohh, if you don't like it, the dress wasn't expensive, we can just go get another one!'
She's sneaky b/c she knows I would feel bad to have her spend more money and now it's only a few weeks till the wedding. I'm sooooo mad!!! The thought of what she did just makes me BOILLLL!!!

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Posted by cc2011

FSIL decided to take it upon herself to purchase these things already. I literally found out about it at my bridal shower through the grape vine. It wasn't even told directly to me!!!
I'm sooooooooooooo mad. I literally refuse to see the dress in person or have any other involvement w/ this flower girl dress. But, it still pisses me off.

Last night she pretty much shoved a pic of her daughter in the dress and was like 'what do you think?' SERIOUSLY! NOWWWWWWWWWWW SHE WANTS TO KNOW WHAT I THINK...AFTERRRRR SHE BOUGHT THE DRESS.

Oh, by the way, the headpiece has a freaking veil attached to it! It looks like its her effin communion! ANDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD my dress is off white- her daughter's dress is white!

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yeahhhh that changes things! I would totally be confronting the situation...wedding is only 6 weeks away!

tell her to return and it asappppppppppppppp how rude!!!!! and what's with the veiled headpiece?! people are insaneeeeeee

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Posted by leighlo1226

tell her to return and it asappppppppppppppp how rude!!!!! and what's with the veiled headpiece?! people are insaneeeeeee

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RIGHT!!! A EFFIN VEILLLLLLLLLLLLLLL....She had her wedding already and obviously she knows how this done!!! I'm so sick and tired of the selfishness!!!

Oh hell no

You send her the link to the dress you want and call it a day...and purchase her headpiece yourself

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Posted by IrishAli

Oh hell no

You send her the link to the dress you want and call it a day...and purchase her headpiece yourself

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Just the thought of the stunt she pulled pisses me so much!!! The thought of speaking to her or being in the same room raises my blood pressure like you couldnt believe!!!!

i would be mad and i would be a biatch and say...no i dont like it and if you would have consulted with me first before buying it since it is my wedding and all you wouldnt have wasted money and yes you need to get a new dress and no veil thanks

thats just me i dont care i say how it is

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Posted by ImgonnabeMrsC

what! thats bull! is it nice atl east?

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Nope...not the look I wanted. I would have loved something w/ ruffles and in the same shade as me!

ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh i just read back..holy god. that is rude! and a veil!? is she trying to take away from your day?!

slap that woman.

tell her you had another idea for a dress and its your day ! tell her the dress is nice but you prefer to have it off white to match your dress bc your photographer said so. that way pics wont clash. do it do it!